How to know if this girl is just playing with me.In my opinion she's playing push and pull on me.She has a boyfriend but i think she's deep into me cause she's flirting and giving me signs of attraction.The next moment she's cold and plays deep in love with her boyfriend.WTF?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I'd like to hear what these "deep signs" are,even though I doubt it matters.So you think she's into you because she's giving you "deep signs of attraction",and yet,she has a boyfriend. Hmm. Tell me,which do you think is better...to be getting deep signs of attraction from a girl,or to have sex with her,which her boyfriend is doing? Time to wake up and smell the coffee man. You can stop wondering.Sali said:
She's playing you.
She uses you to get attention,while getting sex from her boyfriend.
It's a perfect setup for her. Basically,she's having her cake and eating it too.
There's 3 people here: You,this girl,and her boyfriend. The girl is getting her emotional fix from you and getting sex from her boyfriend. The boyfriend is getting sex from this girl,and you....umm...what was it you're getting again?
She'll keep this going on as long as she can.
If you want to continue to be a sucker for this emotional leech,then be our guest,have at it.
Otherwise,stand up,be a man,and go find you a woman who wants to be with you,not some bratty little girl playing high school games.
Oh...and welcome to the forum.
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She's playing with you. She is just flirting and having fun which most men and women do when in a relationship and you are reading too much into things. She is pushing and pulling for fun, she is unattainable and it would be in your best interest to tell her to "get lost".Sali said:
I fell into this trap a few years ago and I felt like an idiot, because she played me for a right fool, do not make the same mistake I did and waste months chasing someone who isn't interested and is committed to someone else.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.