How to know if this girl is just playing with me.In my opinion she's playing push and pull on me.She has a boyfriend but i think she's deep into me cause she's flirting and giving me signs of attraction.The next moment she's cold and plays deep in love with her boyfriend.WTF?
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I'd like to hear what these "deep signs" are,even though I doubt it matters.So you think she's into you because she's giving you "deep signs of attraction",and yet,she has a boyfriend. Hmm. Tell me,which do you think is better...to be getting deep signs of attraction from a girl,or to have sex with her,which her boyfriend is doing? Time to wake up and smell the coffee man. You can stop wondering.Sali said:
She's playing you.
She uses you to get attention,while getting sex from her boyfriend.
It's a perfect setup for her. Basically,she's having her cake and eating it too.
There's 3 people here: You,this girl,and her boyfriend. The girl is getting her emotional fix from you and getting sex from her boyfriend. The boyfriend is getting sex from this girl,and you....umm...what was it you're getting again?
She'll keep this going on as long as she can.
If you want to continue to be a sucker for this emotional leech,then be our guest,have at it.
Otherwise,stand up,be a man,and go find you a woman who wants to be with you,not some bratty little girl playing high school games.
Oh...and welcome to the forum.
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She's playing with you. She is just flirting and having fun which most men and women do when in a relationship and you are reading too much into things. She is pushing and pulling for fun, she is unattainable and it would be in your best interest to tell her to "get lost".Sali said:
I fell into this trap a few years ago and I felt like an idiot, because she played me for a right fool, do not make the same mistake I did and waste months chasing someone who isn't interested and is committed to someone else.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.