I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???Answers said:I'm looking for information on womens sizes. Anybody know any sites that give examples?
Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etcSunnyD said:Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???
Oh...well tell me what actress body-type she resembles and I can tell you. Can't think of any sites but I'm sure you can google something.Answers said:Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etc
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.SunnyD said:Ohh..you haven't met her and she says she's a 14??
Well, yeah that's kinda big.....
Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...Answers said:I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
SunnyD said:Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...
I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.Bible_Belt said:and when you walk by, all the fat girls whisper under their breath, "That skinny b!tch!"
Lol its a bit confusing alright! They'll have cloths in multiple sizes but tell you the smallest size.Francisco d'Anconia said:Talk about a system which has been changed and manipulated to deceive. The clothing measurement scale for women (excluding bra size) has stayed away from being set in standard units forever. Hell, even women will tell you that a numerical size from one manufacturer differs from the same numerical size from another manufacturer. There has also been a movement to slide the measurements toward lower numbers in order to make women feel more comfortable buying large sizes.
Here's a link to one measurement chart, don't look at it as the gospel though.
http://www.hsn.com/womens-size-chart_at-385_xa.aspx
Note that the chart says that the measurements are body sizes, not manufacturing specifications.![]()
You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.SunnyD said:I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.
5'5" and 114 is not skinny. Maybe in the Fat States of America, but in much of the world that is fairly average if not a big overweight. Everybody is fat these days in America. Huge thighs and butts dominate the American landscape these days.Answers said:You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
:crackup:Blackmm said:Unless the chick is really tall (5'11+) ANY dress size in the double digits means she is overweight.
Thats true. Thats why I ment that women can be slim and still weight more than 114Ibs unless they have a petite body type.meitenesrigas said:Dress sizes really have nothing to do with size. Weight is also not a good indicator. A Lithuanian, Latvian, or Ukrainian girl will way less than a Germanic girl even though she is probably taller. Why? Body type. Long legs, long arms, and tiny trunks.