I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???Answers said:I'm looking for information on womens sizes. Anybody know any sites that give examples?
Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etcSunnyD said:Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???
Oh...well tell me what actress body-type she resembles and I can tell you. Can't think of any sites but I'm sure you can google something.Answers said:Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etc
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.SunnyD said:Ohh..you haven't met her and she says she's a 14??
Well, yeah that's kinda big.....
Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...Answers said:I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
SunnyD said:Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...
I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.Bible_Belt said:and when you walk by, all the fat girls whisper under their breath, "That skinny b!tch!"
Lol its a bit confusing alright! They'll have cloths in multiple sizes but tell you the smallest size.Francisco d'Anconia said:Talk about a system which has been changed and manipulated to deceive. The clothing measurement scale for women (excluding bra size) has stayed away from being set in standard units forever. Hell, even women will tell you that a numerical size from one manufacturer differs from the same numerical size from another manufacturer. There has also been a movement to slide the measurements toward lower numbers in order to make women feel more comfortable buying large sizes.
Here's a link to one measurement chart, don't look at it as the gospel though.
http://www.hsn.com/womens-size-chart_at-385_xa.aspx
Note that the chart says that the measurements are body sizes, not manufacturing specifications.![]()
You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.SunnyD said:I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.
5'5" and 114 is not skinny. Maybe in the Fat States of America, but in much of the world that is fairly average if not a big overweight. Everybody is fat these days in America. Huge thighs and butts dominate the American landscape these days.Answers said:You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
:crackup:Blackmm said:Unless the chick is really tall (5'11+) ANY dress size in the double digits means she is overweight.
Thats true. Thats why I ment that women can be slim and still weight more than 114Ibs unless they have a petite body type.meitenesrigas said:Dress sizes really have nothing to do with size. Weight is also not a good indicator. A Lithuanian, Latvian, or Ukrainian girl will way less than a Germanic girl even though she is probably taller. Why? Body type. Long legs, long arms, and tiny trunks.