I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???Answers said:I'm looking for information on womens sizes. Anybody know any sites that give examples?
Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etcSunnyD said:Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???
Oh...well tell me what actress body-type she resembles and I can tell you. Can't think of any sites but I'm sure you can google something.Answers said:Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etc
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.SunnyD said:Ohh..you haven't met her and she says she's a 14??
Well, yeah that's kinda big.....
Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...Answers said:I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SunnyD said:Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...
I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.Bible_Belt said:and when you walk by, all the fat girls whisper under their breath, "That skinny b!tch!"
Lol its a bit confusing alright! They'll have cloths in multiple sizes but tell you the smallest size.Francisco d'Anconia said:Talk about a system which has been changed and manipulated to deceive. The clothing measurement scale for women (excluding bra size) has stayed away from being set in standard units forever. Hell, even women will tell you that a numerical size from one manufacturer differs from the same numerical size from another manufacturer. There has also been a movement to slide the measurements toward lower numbers in order to make women feel more comfortable buying large sizes.
Here's a link to one measurement chart, don't look at it as the gospel though.
http://www.hsn.com/womens-size-chart_at-385_xa.aspx
Note that the chart says that the measurements are body sizes, not manufacturing specifications.![]()
You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.SunnyD said:I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.
5'5" and 114 is not skinny. Maybe in the Fat States of America, but in much of the world that is fairly average if not a big overweight. Everybody is fat these days in America. Huge thighs and butts dominate the American landscape these days.Answers said:You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
:crackup:Blackmm said:Unless the chick is really tall (5'11+) ANY dress size in the double digits means she is overweight.
Thats true. Thats why I ment that women can be slim and still weight more than 114Ibs unless they have a petite body type.meitenesrigas said:Dress sizes really have nothing to do with size. Weight is also not a good indicator. A Lithuanian, Latvian, or Ukrainian girl will way less than a Germanic girl even though she is probably taller. Why? Body type. Long legs, long arms, and tiny trunks.