Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???Answers said:I'm looking for information on womens sizes. Anybody know any sites that give examples?
Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etcSunnyD said:Sizes in WHAT?? Shirts? Dresses? Jeans? Rings? Lingerie???
Oh...well tell me what actress body-type she resembles and I can tell you. Can't think of any sites but I'm sure you can google something.Answers said:Cloths size. You know when they say their size 10, 12 etc
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.SunnyD said:Ohh..you haven't met her and she says she's a 14??
Well, yeah that's kinda big.....
Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...Answers said:I just checked wiki and it says US sizes are 2 out so that would make her a US size 12. Shes 5ft 6.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SunnyD said:Well I don't know if this helps, but I am a size 3 and weigh 114 lbs. Soo...
I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.Bible_Belt said:and when you walk by, all the fat girls whisper under their breath, "That skinny b!tch!"
Lol its a bit confusing alright! They'll have cloths in multiple sizes but tell you the smallest size.Francisco d'Anconia said:Talk about a system which has been changed and manipulated to deceive. The clothing measurement scale for women (excluding bra size) has stayed away from being set in standard units forever. Hell, even women will tell you that a numerical size from one manufacturer differs from the same numerical size from another manufacturer. There has also been a movement to slide the measurements toward lower numbers in order to make women feel more comfortable buying large sizes.
Here's a link to one measurement chart, don't look at it as the gospel though.
http://www.hsn.com/womens-size-chart_at-385_xa.aspx
Note that the chart says that the measurements are body sizes, not manufacturing specifications.![]()
You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.SunnyD said:I doubt it. I'm 5'5 so I'd say I'm the normal weight for someone my size.
5'5" and 114 is not skinny. Maybe in the Fat States of America, but in much of the world that is fairly average if not a big overweight. Everybody is fat these days in America. Huge thighs and butts dominate the American landscape these days.Answers said:You're nearly average height so 114Ibs is skinny! you must have a petite body type.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
:crackup:Blackmm said:Unless the chick is really tall (5'11+) ANY dress size in the double digits means she is overweight.
Thats true. Thats why I ment that women can be slim and still weight more than 114Ibs unless they have a petite body type.meitenesrigas said:Dress sizes really have nothing to do with size. Weight is also not a good indicator. A Lithuanian, Latvian, or Ukrainian girl will way less than a Germanic girl even though she is probably taller. Why? Body type. Long legs, long arms, and tiny trunks.