Anyone ever date a woman with any sort of baggage and it actually becomes advantageous to you? Currently seeing this woman who is dealing with a custody battle and also takes meds for depression and ADD. The ironic thing is she feels so bad about the stuff I'm putting up with that she is doing whatever it takes to keep me around. And I mean anything. This is just the latest example I have. I'm by no means suggesting they are good for a LTR but they def have their benefits.
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Women with Baggage = A Good Thing
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Agreed. Just trying to make a point that because a woman has issues, doesn't mean one should quickly dismiss.
Or just want to spin plates regardless if they have problems or not.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
RickTheToad
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OP.. I can see your future... It's coming through now... A lot of pain and a baby momma; by "accident", of course.
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Women with baggage = a bad thing
Music_czar
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Women with baggage = a bad thing long term
Slvts with baggage are great. They’ll generally let you do whatever you want to ‘em in the bedroom. But just don’t catch feelings because if you do you’ll be sorry..
Women with baggage are great because they provide you with lots of low cost sex practice. And they’re great for letting inexperienced men learn very quickly what they don’t want from a long term partner.
Slvts with baggage are great. They’ll generally let you do whatever you want to ‘em in the bedroom. But just don’t catch feelings because if you do you’ll be sorry..
Women with baggage are great because they provide you with lots of low cost sex practice. And they’re great for letting inexperienced men learn very quickly what they don’t want from a long term partner.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
btownbuck2012
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Reminds me of a quote of the late great Pook
“The bitterness of a poor quality woman will be remembered far longer than the sweetness of how easy it was to obtain her”
I think we all go through a period where we enjoy that honeymoon phase with a garbage chick. After a while though you gotta shake that off because the short term bliss is never, ever worth what follows.
Learning to not fall for the trap toxic women set is mature growth milestone for any aspiring DJ.
“The bitterness of a poor quality woman will be remembered far longer than the sweetness of how easy it was to obtain her”
I think we all go through a period where we enjoy that honeymoon phase with a garbage chick. After a while though you gotta shake that off because the short term bliss is never, ever worth what follows.
Learning to not fall for the trap toxic women set is mature growth milestone for any aspiring DJ.
btownbuck2012
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Do us a favor and keep dating her until the crazy comes out and chronicle it here. It’ll be beneficial. But bounce after that lol. With her I mean. Not the forum.
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What’s the point of chronicling it? We all know how it’s gonna end.
Serenity
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Some guys just need to learn the hard way...
btownbuck2012
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Haha yeah true. OP disregard my 2nd comment.
wifehunter
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Hot girls are turning 18 every day, and you jam up your time with this?
flowtheory
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Let’s define baggge.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Baggge"?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.