I don’t necessarily agree fully on this. Women aren’t monsters. And it’s not really about winning or losing.
When anyone cheats they don’t win, because really they lose a huge part of their self in that process. Guilt, shame, loss of self respect and trust, are all consequences.
When a man gives over all the power to a woman and she moves on, she doesn’t necessarily win; she simply just wants to be with a man who values himself. She actually lost time and emotions. No different than a man leaving a woman who is unconfident or low self esteem.
The point in relationship is to create value in oneself. If you’re high value and a woman cheats, it’s not you, it’s her issue that she can’t step up. So she loses you. If your paradigm is that women always win, you need to investigate within yourself that thinking and eradicate it quick. Women or other people cannot be advisories.