She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No drink since 7/2017
I was just laughing abour their nature
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Problem i see is when you get one you really like and then end up giving her all the power because walking away is much harder.
Thats why we cry and complain. When they dont get most of the power things usually work better.
And theyre happier that way too. When man doesnt give much power.U should say thank you 2 Spaz..
And u r right goodstuff
Happier but still make you struggle and fight for it
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Struggle and fight to have your OWN peace and security. Peace and security you would have if you werent dealing with them.
or you could be alone, sometimes is better be alone then a annoying ***** who don't have any value, its like old things sometimes you keep a broken thing over jsut because you think it can be fixed later, but then it just sit there getting in the way, when we should just have tossed that in the garbage a long time ago
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Holy shyt. So whats there positive to look forward to?
Ah, the million dollar question.
Some women where raised to be supportive and loving. They tend to be trashed out by players. They still exist i talk to a few . they usually are 1-2 pts down vs a vain hoe on physical but they will be loyal and work hard to please.
