"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women "win" either way

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So women decided they will "win". If they arent "winning" theyll cheat on you and "win". And if youve submitted to your master shell cheat on you for submitting to her with a non submitted male.j

Dont respond to this. You may so well enjoy your life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did you have a bad night?
You ok?

Always be willing to walk away and go next plate.
Only course of action
This is what i think most ppl here have a hard time with. When you dont get plate often it makes it way harder

However when you put he priority on yourself loosing a plate is not as bad and its easier to dgaf
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did you have a bad night?
You ok?

Always be willing to walk away and go next plate.
Only course of action
This is what i think most ppl here have a hard time with. When you dont get plate often it makes it way harder

However when you put he priority on yourself loosing a plate is not as bad and its easier to dgaf
or you could be alone, sometimes is better be alone then a annoying ***** who don't have any value, its like old things sometimes you keep a broken thing over jsut because you think it can be fixed later, but then it just sit there getting in the way, when we should just have tossed that in the garbage a long time ago
 

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You're right. It really is about who ends up on top. And the ones who submit to you are usually headcases who have too many mental issues.
 

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I don’t necessarily agree fully on this. Women aren’t monsters. And it’s not really about winning or losing.

When anyone cheats they don’t win, because really they lose a huge part of their self in that process. Guilt, shame, loss of self respect and trust, are all consequences.

When a man gives over all the power to a woman and she moves on, she doesn’t necessarily win; she simply just wants to be with a man who values himself. She actually lost time and emotions. No different than a man leaving a woman who is unconfident or low self esteem.

The point in relationship is to create value in oneself. If you’re high value and a woman cheats, it’s not you, it’s her issue that she can’t step up. So she loses you. If your paradigm is that women always win, you need to investigate within yourself that thinking and eradicate it quick. Women or other people cannot be advisories.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're right. It really is about who ends up on top. And the ones who submit to you are usually headcases who have too many mental issues.
Holy shyt. So whats there positive to look forward to?
 

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Ah, the million dollar question.
Some women where raised to be supportive and loving. They tend to be trashed out by players. They still exist i talk to a few . they usually are 1-2 pts down vs a vain hoe on physical but they will be loyal and work hard to please.

However, in the chaste women due to feminism thry can even be terrible in that while they arent slutting it around they will not submit to masculinity and will stand in a deep part of masculine space. And challenge you on every point, slowing momentum. So yeah i know a couple who havent taken on a lot of dyck that due to our culture it would consume some of your masculinity to be with.
 
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