You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How would you feel if a man walked around confident and he acted like he had some great dyck? Does that anger you as a woman? In the man realm they were attacking guys with dyck power because they felt it represents control over women.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nikki Glaser talked about it. Other than her, it doesn't seem to be commonly discussed.
no, I love confidence in men. I don't get angry at ****y arrogant men. I freakin love them. I encourage that.They are capable of anything that comes their way.
Yeah who is she? I meant to google her. That comedienne, Amy Schumer is the only one I've heard speak frankly about women parts.
Men and feminist. They act like your an abusive male to have that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
hmmm, I don't know that I've seen this or heard this. You live in a different daily culture than me. I have a sheltered and closed off life, limited exposure to mass media and work in maledominated bluecollar but with oldschool ultraconservative gentlemen alphas.
Conservative and passion. Do those mix?
First thought is oppositional.