Women that chase men

[Pumax]

Do you guys think that women that chase or show interest to men, like declaring themselves, are the bad/toxic ones?

I mean if a woman want a man, but the man struggle to understand or doesnt care, so she does a major "interest show off" like directlt declaring herself or inviting him out, does that mean women like that are bad or toxic?

 

[Prepostereax]

Women show "interest" in a different way to men, ie it's indirect and plausibly deniable.
What a woman considers as wide open flirting, is often invisible to men.

And they do it often, partly because it can take a while for the average guy to get the hint, and partly because it could be just for fun or practice.
ie in most cases, women are outcome independent, if the dude doesn't reciprocate, then it was just a bit of harmless fun.


Here you are basically asking if they make unmistakable DTF messages?

Do you guys think that women that chase or show interest to men, like declaring themselves, are the bad/toxic ones?

I mean if a woman want a man, but the man struggle to understand or doesnt care, so she does a major "interest show off" like directlt declaring herself or inviting him out, does that mean women like that are bad or toxic?

Not necessarily, but even when a woman desperately wants a man, she wants him to want her, enough that he does at least some of the pursuing

That's why they put in so much effort beforehand, to make themselves the prettiest flower they can be.

I can't remember who posted this, I think it was catsmeow, so I'll paraphrase
"If I was in the same room as Chris Hemsworth, but his expression towards me is 'meh', my opinion and desire for him would plummet"

When women "skip the bs", it's generally because

* they've swallowed dozens of d!cks already
* they're budding boss babes
* their perceived smv is lower than your perceived smv
* under the influence of alcohol and/or party drugs
* spurred on by their bestie (usually in combination with the above 2)
* some darker reason eg make another dude jealous, steal your wallet/kidneys
* could also be because you gave off non-verbal signals which she interpreted, correctly or not, as an approach (eg dancing with her)
* or her "invitation to go out" isn't actually a DTF pronouncement, it's because she sees you as a girlfriend or gay bestie, and all she really wants from you is to gossip over coffee

If you're just after a ONS, a woman making the first move is welcome (assuming she passes your boner test)
If you want something more substantial, tread with caution

 

[Velasco]

"If I was in the same room as Chris Hemsworth, but his expression towards me is 'meh', my opinion and desire for him would plummet"

takes me back to my early mystery method days. where i tried to hide my interest until i saw an obvious indicator of interest. like if they didn’t make an effort to come talk to me, despite that fact that i could tell they were interested subconsciously, i wouldn’t make a move and they would interpret that as disinterest from me, and then they’d lose interest lol

 

[Velasco]

Chris Hemsworth is attractive for sure but if he acted "meh" towards me, I'd walk away and focus on other men who didn't act meh towards me and were interested

do u know what plummet means? hint: not go up lol

 

[Sega Genesis]

do u know what plummet means? hint: not go up lol

Lol ok my bad I feel silly now. Thanks for correcting me, appreciate it. I guess I've been conditioned to expect the worst when it comes to catsmeow, obviously I wasn't thinking! Lol

I'm gonna delete my post.

 

[BeExcellent]

Men are hunters. Think about that. Hunting requires effort, tactics, stealth to catch prey.

If the prey comes and lays down before you saying "Pick me!" "Pick me!!" it is defective.

Like might have rabies defective...

Caveat emptor gentlemen.

 

[Gamisch]

Ime women will definitely show interest. Especially when you knock her of her socks by just being in her presence.

She might not straight up tell it immediately, but as time goes on she will be more and more bold about it. ..matter of fact ( and I'd like to hear the ladies @BeExcellent and @Sega Genesis opinion) ,most women have enough options and especially knowledge about their specific taste to determine a " fitting prospect " is close by. And when a man qualified, she won't mind putting in effort to rail him in...

So yes gents, the trick is to be(come) that guy. The man who will have women behave completely different than she does around other men. If you build yourself up you will notice that women will indeed chase YOU, albeit subtle and covertly but yet allowing you as a man to push things further and further.