Women show "interest" in a different way to men, ie it's indirect and plausibly deniable.
What a woman considers as wide open flirting, is often invisible to men.
And they do it often, partly because it can take a while for the average guy to get the hint, and partly because it could be just for fun or practice.
ie in most cases, women are outcome independent, if the dude doesn't reciprocate, then it was just a bit of harmless fun.
Here you are basically asking if they make unmistakable DTF messages?
Do you guys think that women that chase or show interest to men, like declaring themselves, are the bad/toxic ones?
I mean if a woman want a man, but the man struggle to understand or doesnt care, so she does a major "interest show off" like directlt declaring herself or inviting him out, does that mean women like that are bad or toxic?
Not necessarily, but even when a woman desperately wants a man,
she wants him to want her, enough that he does at least some of the pursuing
That's why they put in so much effort beforehand, to make themselves the prettiest flower they can be.
I can't remember who posted this, I think it was catsmeow, so I'll paraphrase
"If I was in the same room as Chris Hemsworth, but his expression towards me is 'meh', my opinion and desire for him would plummet"
When women "skip the bs", it's generally because
* they've swallowed dozens of d!cks already
* they're budding boss babes
* their perceived smv is lower than your perceived smv
* under the influence of alcohol and/or party drugs
* spurred on by their bestie (usually in combination with the above 2)
* some darker reason eg make another dude jealous, steal your wallet/kidneys
* could also be because you gave off non-verbal signals which she interpreted, correctly or not, as an approach (eg dancing with her)
* or her "invitation to go out" isn't actually a DTF pronouncement, it's because she sees you as a girlfriend or gay bestie, and all she really wants from you is to gossip over coffee
If you're just after a ONS, a woman making the first move is welcome (assuming she passes your boner test)
If you want something more substantial, tread with caution
