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Women over 30 are Damaged Goods

Manure Spherian

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This is the type of man who operates from scarcity mentality and not abundance mentality.
This is not a mentality. It’s simply a limitation. I for example cannot attract a runway model because I’m not rich and powerful.
 

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I think this might be overinflated due to the internet age we live in. For instance, there's many mediocre women I know on instagram. However, when you look at their followers and comments, it's from third world people in south america or india or some poor chinese province. Which is not a true representation of her value. Nor will she ever interface with such men, so they have an overinflated ego that is falsely valued in reality.
It's common for women to overinflated and overrate their own SMV based upon their internet responses. There are instances where women in the USA get numerous non-local Followers and commenters on Instagram. However, this woman (likely in a USA big city) gets more Followers from her local market and more attention from her local market than she could achieve in the absence of an Instagram presence. Plus, most women also get DMs on LinkedIn for dates/sex too.

In terms of generating local interest, a swipe app is going to be more effective than a social media profile.

Locally, most women still have the same limitations they've always had.
Women can generate more interest in their local market than in the pre-internet and early stages of the internet eras (1980s-2000s).

The de-stigmatization of dating websites in the mid-2000s was a part of this, but it was followed up with the smartphone and dating apps.

The one problem is that women are very good at withholding sex cause they aren't fueled by testosterone like us men are. So their sex drives can be stalled for a long time until they like a guy. So they'll never make it easy for local men despite thats the best those women can do. Before feminism took root, even the good looking women would have an average guy at best who worked at the local factory or maybe is the son of a local business tyrant.
This is true.

Caleb Jones (aka Alpha Male 2.0, Blackdragon) did a blog post about this topic in 2017.


Most women will fall into the "Normal Sex Drive Women" he described.

I've always valued younger women. As I've said before, younger women does not bother me because some men make the mistake of making them your friends. No, she is not there for intelligent discussion. You're the older guy. You direct her, tell her what to do, and protect her.
Women under 30 are the best option for men of any age. The 18-24 women are absolute peak.
 

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It took me 39 years to realize that song is about a guy who wants to cheat on poor Josie while she’s away on vacation. I’m slow sometimes lol
Don't sweat it, hombre... Most of the planet remains unaware that their brilliance wasn't confined to a single tune

And at least a few million younguns encountered that song in their favorite show
, yet are ignorant of it's origins
 

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Main problem is that after 30 a woman lived multiple lifes, I'd say up to 4 times she changed her identity. This 30 number is about the same time a man starts to develop. It's one of the most cruel discrepancies of mother nature between men and women.
Yeah, one sees this at the macrolevel in Hollywood... Actresses, no matter how talented, best get their foot in the door while still in their teens and the world is eager to see them without their clothes on. ACTORS, by contrast, even when they have looks to go along with their talent*, frequently go unnoticed until their deep into their 30s-sometimes even older. It ain't even unheard of for lots of these fellas to leave acting for awhile early in their careers, take up different vocations, then return when they've physically and emotionally got some mileage on


*A few examples: Brad Pitt and Russel Crowe were not kids fresh out of high school, when they became household names, in the mid-90s and early 2000s, respectively. Ethan Hawke had been around since The 80s, when he finally started being taken seriously as an actor via flicks like Training Day, rather than getting written off as just another pretty face in danger of going the way of Corey Haim. Unlike his Anyone But You Co-Star Sydney Sweeney, Glen Powell is coming up on 40, and just now beginning to gain recognition. The list could stretch on for miles. The DiCaprio's of the world are exceptions to "The Norm"
 
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Stil though..unfortunately I do have to say that in this day and age( post 2020) most men will benefit from aiming at women older than 30.

Unless you can provide a baller -ish lifestyle( which would be stupid) you will struggle to get and especially maintain relationships with younger women. Older women MIGHT have learned their lessons, and actually act accordingly.

That will take you as a man to let go of that pipe dream that the hot 21 y.o cashier will be your ride or die..
 

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Anytime I meet a couple where she is close to him or even older when it comes of age, I know there are some serious psychological issues in both of them.

He is generally weak minded and insecure while she is controlling and full of trauma (way above the average for women which says it all).

The find each other, the controlling woman needs a compliant man and the compliant man needs someone that validates him with dinamics similar to mother /son ones.
This make a sense.
 
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