"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women only care about improving their lifestyle

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Why does VALUE matter more than anything?
Why are women with MONEY more selective than broke women?
Why does LMS matter for SMV?

All these answers and more below:

The biggest appeal of a man to a woman is the impact he can have on her lifestyle.

Looks = Genetic VALUE for producing children that raise a woman's status
MONEY = Lifestyle VALUE for Improved quality of life for herself and her kids
Status = Social VALUE for improved social standing for herself and her kids

More red pills for ya:

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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But that's exactly what you're telling everyone to do: give women exactly what they want by becoming the man who can provide the very lifestyle they desire.

Is this not your message?
My message is be the best version of yourself you can possibly be in terms of looks, MONEY and status.

Why? Because there is no downside.

The only type of person who gets angry at someone who tells them to raise their VALUE is a lazy fat ass who wants a QUICK FIX.

What's your message? Don't give women what they want and instead spend all your time learning "game" so you can pretend to have what women want?

Lol.
 

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Putting on Ignore was long overdue for OP
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The ex-husband of one woman I am sleeping with right now, who is paying her $80,000/yr in alimony, would probably disagree with your "no downside" comment.

My message? I don't know. Not really here to deliver one. But if I were, I'd suppose it would be: how not to become that a$$hole paying $80K/yr. in alimony.
So stay broke to avoid financing women? Lol.

How about don't get f*cking married!

LOL.
 

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Already making 6 figures. So I should just accept the fact I must finance women? Is that it?



Never did. But you don't have to get married to end up fvcked up financially by someone. There are women out there who will write down your credit card numbers and go shopping online while that card sits snug in your wallet. There are women who will forge checks to cash. I've seen all kinds of things women do with other people's money. And they think it's ok just because they're sucking you off after diner, while you think you're king sh*t.

You don't think men have to be careful about that kind of stuff? You're so rich and red pill you don't give a sh*t?
Don't make MONEY because it might get stolen? LOL.

This crap has nothing to do with raising your SMV.
 

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Who the hell said don't make money because it might be stolen?

Make money. Yes. Depending on it to attract women? Not very bright.
Who the hell said not to worry about women taking advantage of your MONEY?

See? I can play this game too.

Lol.
 

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OP: i guess you dont give a fvck about improving your lifestyle?
Obviously women are humans, like you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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then why would women not be the same, according to your post?
 

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You make everything so black and white sometimes and then you fight like crazy to protect your argument.

Yes, money and looks and status matter quite a lot, no rocket science this one, has been told over and over. Women like men who have a decent financial situation at least, look decent at least and are socially able to handle situations in about 60/70% of the cases.

Now I have to tell you something that you often leave without thinking and consequently, saying: will improving your looks, status and money make you more attractive to more and more women? Logically, yes. However, I will stress it out that one of the most important and close to unimprovable things is character and character is almost entirely genetic + way you were brought up. So beyond your idea that making more money and being more powerful gets you women, there is always your character, what you are and what you stand for as a man.

Money and looks and status are going to get you women, but what kinda women? What quality of woman? Will it get you some cheap *****s who will bang anyone that has power and to them you're just the next guy they bang? Or will it get you a woman that might actually become a companion and share travels, stories and laughings with you?

Think about the answer. If you're smart, there will be no answer and you will understand you're sometimes too extreme and too assholi-sh when you slam half of the forum as "blue pill".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seems that women who are very interested actually refuse your financial offers to them (in particular first date travel costs, in my case visa and flights (300usd for euro visa) from women who earn 1/10 of what I do.
I know in one way it is an anti-slvt defense, but also to qualify themselves (or fool you).
These are LTR seekers over 32yo however... your mileage may vary.
 

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You make everything so black and white sometimes and then you fight like crazy to protect your argument.

Yes, money and looks and status matter quite a lot, no rocket science this one, has been told over and over. Women like men who have a decent financial situation at least, look decent at least and are socially able to handle situations in about 60/70% of the cases.

Now I have to tell you something that you often leave without thinking and consequently, saying: will improving your looks, status and money make you more attractive to more and more women? Logically, yes. However, I will stress it out that one of the most important and close to unimprovable things is character and character is almost entirely genetic + way you were brought up. So beyond your idea that making more money and being more powerful gets you women, there is always your character, what you are and what you stand for as a man.

Money and looks and status are going to get you women, but what kinda women? What quality of woman? Will it get you some cheap *****s who will bang anyone that has power and to them you're just the next guy they bang? Or will it get you a woman that might actually become a companion and share travels, stories and laughings with you?

Think about the answer. If you're smart, there will be no answer and you will understand you're sometimes too extreme and too assholi-sh when you slam half of the forum as "blue pill".
Nothing I'm saying is extreme. Its just the way it is.

Most guys on this site are blue pill because they shouldn't be so f*cking sensitive in the first place lol. Flaming anyone who doesn't support "game". Really?

You don't need "game" to date and f*ck ugly women because your SMV is way above them. The same logic applies to all other women.

Its so obvious, but these retards want to keep defending "game" like some cult.

Whatever lol.

SMV = Opens door
COMPATIBILITY = Staying power

That's it.
 

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There are women out there who will write down your credit card numbers and go shopping online while that card sits snug in your wallet. There are women who will forge checks to cash.
All men must learn to screen for character, that's outright theft, pretty sure that's a felony. Those guys were dating bernie madoff essentially, it's wild to imagine something like that not having red flags
 
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