That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I do not want to be friends with him. No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that. I know it's her boyfriend and I am better than him. But that woman needs to understand that aswell.Azu said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup: yeah, pretty much:crackup:Philippe Schlichting said:
Gangnam Wolverine - Your argument is invalidPhilippe Schlichting said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
And *how* exactly do you *know* you are better then him? You don't know the guy: you only assume it. You sound like an arrogant and bratty punkass who isn't getting what he wants. Take a good, introspective look at yourself: there is a reason you are not getting what you want. Women are probably seeing right through whatever persona you are attempting to project....Philippe Schlichting said:
You will never know cause you are inferior to me.Trailboss said: