Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I do not want to be friends with him. No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that. I know it's her boyfriend and I am better than him. But that woman needs to understand that aswell.Azu said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup: yeah, pretty much:crackup:Philippe Schlichting said:
Gangnam Wolverine - Your argument is invalidPhilippe Schlichting said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And *how* exactly do you *know* you are better then him? You don't know the guy: you only assume it. You sound like an arrogant and bratty punkass who isn't getting what he wants. Take a good, introspective look at yourself: there is a reason you are not getting what you want. Women are probably seeing right through whatever persona you are attempting to project....Philippe Schlichting said:
You will never know cause you are inferior to me.Trailboss said: