Trailboss
Don Juan
Maybe he should try hitting on the boyfriends..........?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WATCH OUT JOHNCHOPS HE MIGHT CAPSLOCK YOU TO DEATH!!!!Philippe Schlichting said:Didn't read any further. Watch your tone.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Purefilth said:WATCH OUT JOHNCHOPS HE MIGHT CAPSLOCK YOU TO DEATH!!!!
This story is Phil of SchlitPhilippe Schlichting said:I had this happen all the time in the recent past and I am so fed up with it that I need to deal with it.
I do daygame. So I am out in the city walking around. I find a girl who is on her own and who is my type. I am approaching and every time some dude I did not see starts kissing her hugging her then and there.
I want to know how to deal with that. Literally. Making her laugh is unrealistic in that situation. We all know that women don't want to decide and if in doubt they stay with that sh.ithead.
I do not want to be friends with him.
No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that.
Terms of reply:
- Don't give me the moral rap
- Don't give me the I-will-beat-you-up-if-you-did-that-to-my-girl rap
- Answer the question or shut up
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Funny how this can also be applied to seducing.VladPatton said:Basic principles of hand-to-hand combat: :box:
1. Be aggressive
2. Keep your eyes on the opponent
3. Distract the opponent
4. Disable or be disabled
5. Vary the attack to fit the situation
6. Turn the defense into an unrelenting attack
7. Feel superior to the opponent regardless of the latter's size or evidence of strength
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She is standing right next to him. What is appropriate?VladPatton said:5. Vary the attack to fit the situation
Do you think this is funny? Do you think I have nothing better to do than write this post because I am bored?SgtSplacker said:Many women get really turned on by tests/feats of strength. Just walk up to the dude she's with grab him firmly by the shoulder and force him down to his knees to bow before you. She will fall into your arms guaranteed!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.