Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I do not want to be friends with him. No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that. I know it's her boyfriend and I am better than him. But that woman needs to understand that aswell.Azu said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
:crackup: yeah, pretty much:crackup:Philippe Schlichting said:
Gangnam Wolverine - Your argument is invalidPhilippe Schlichting said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And *how* exactly do you *know* you are better then him? You don't know the guy: you only assume it. You sound like an arrogant and bratty punkass who isn't getting what he wants. Take a good, introspective look at yourself: there is a reason you are not getting what you want. Women are probably seeing right through whatever persona you are attempting to project....Philippe Schlichting said:
You will never know cause you are inferior to me.Trailboss said: