You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I do not want to be friends with him. No, it is not her best friend or brother. I am intelligent enough to distinguish that. I know it's her boyfriend and I am better than him. But that woman needs to understand that aswell.Azu said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:crackup: yeah, pretty much:crackup:Philippe Schlichting said:
Gangnam Wolverine - Your argument is invalidPhilippe Schlichting said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And *how* exactly do you *know* you are better then him? You don't know the guy: you only assume it. You sound like an arrogant and bratty punkass who isn't getting what he wants. Take a good, introspective look at yourself: there is a reason you are not getting what you want. Women are probably seeing right through whatever persona you are attempting to project....Philippe Schlichting said:
You will never know cause you are inferior to me.Trailboss said: