"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women lose weight and fat and they start getting a new attention they never experienced

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Hi guys, just as we guys start getting different attention from women, what happens when women lose weight and are already in a committed relationship?

Women are attention-seekers, so does being in a relationship with a woman who's making this change make you insecure?
Have you ever been there?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi guys, just as we guys start getting different attention from women, what happens when women lose weight and are already in a committed relationship?

Women are attention-seekers, so does being in a relationship with a woman who's making this change make you insecure?
Have you ever been there?
The scenario, as you describe it, is not a thing.
Women in relationships tend to put weight ON, not the other way about.

Conversely, no-one hits the gym harder than a woman divorced. Especially if she's just past "the wall".

The other possible scenario is when the morbidly obese get gastric banding, in which case, they might become barely noticeable.

Also like many of your posts, you paint with the "All Women" brush.
Lots of women absolutely detest attention (perhaps unwanted attention, which is most of it), especially if they're introverts

Besides, for the attention hoers, there's far easier ways to garner validation without going through the effort of shedding unnecessary fat (such as flirting, prancing on TikTok, and posting Clickbait threads)
 

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Hi guys, just as we guys start getting different attention from women, what happens when women lose weight and are already in a committed relationship?

Women are attention-seekers, so does being in a relationship with a woman who's making this change make you insecure?
Have you ever been there?
So do men, what's the point?
 

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They lose weight to catch a dude.

They catch a dude and reel him in.

They they marry him and get fat.

Then when they're REALLY fat, they divorce him and take half his sh*t.

Don't fall for it.

When you see a slim attractive girl, she is getting ready to eat everything in sight.

First all your food, then all your money.

This is why you should always operate under an assumed identity with gaming slimmies.
 

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A woman might stay in shape in a relationship out of fear that her partner will lose interest, to keep him on his toes, for attention, for business reasons, or just because she is emotionally disengaged and ready to leave.

In my country, if a spouse gains weight, loses their attractiveness, or turns ugly, we say you have “mano mala” or a bad hand. It basically means a person’s appearance declined because of their partner’s influence. There are multiple reasons why a person is influenced to let themselves go, but it is mostly due too much comfort, lack game or abundance, and/or stopped giving them a reason to stay on top of themselves like they stopped feeling motivated to maintain their appearance because they believe the other person will stay regardless.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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They lose weight to catch a dude.
They catch a dude and reel him in.
They they marry him an get fat.
Then when they're REALLY fat, they divorce him and take half his sh*t.
Don't fall for it.
Curious to know what happens next you did not write.
This is most accurate thing I've read
Are we talking an otherwise beautiful girl who loses a lot of weight?
What? Well usually even the ugliest one will have a glow up
 
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