“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women lose weight and fat and they start getting a new attention they never experienced

jhonny9546

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Hi guys, just as we guys start getting different attention from women, what happens when women lose weight and are already in a committed relationship?

Women are attention-seekers, so does being in a relationship with a woman who's making this change make you insecure?
Have you ever been there?
 

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Hi guys, just as we guys start getting different attention from women, what happens when women lose weight and are already in a committed relationship?

Women are attention-seekers, so does being in a relationship with a woman who's making this change make you insecure?
Have you ever been there?
The scenario, as you describe it, is not a thing.
Women in relationships tend to put weight ON, not the other way about.

Conversely, no-one hits the gym harder than a woman divorced. Especially if she's just past "the wall".

The other possible scenario is when the morbidly obese get gastric banding, in which case, they might become barely noticeable.

Also like many of your posts, you paint with the "All Women" brush.
Lots of women absolutely detest attention (perhaps unwanted attention, which is most of it), especially if they're introverts

Besides, for the attention hoers, there's far easier ways to garner validation without going through the effort of shedding unnecessary fat (such as flirting, prancing on TikTok, and posting Clickbait threads)
 

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Hi guys, just as we guys start getting different attention from women, what happens when women lose weight and are already in a committed relationship?

Women are attention-seekers, so does being in a relationship with a woman who's making this change make you insecure?
Have you ever been there?
So do men, what's the point?
 

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They lose weight to catch a dude.

They catch a dude and reel him in.

They they marry him and get fat.

Then when they're REALLY fat, they divorce him and take half his sh*t.

Don't fall for it.

When you see a slim attractive girl, she is getting ready to eat everything in sight.

First all your food, then all your money.

This is why you should always operate under an assumed identity with gaming slimmies.
 

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A woman might stay in shape in a relationship out of fear that her partner will lose interest, to keep him on his toes, for attention, for business reasons, or just because she is emotionally disengaged and ready to leave.

In my country, if a spouse gains weight, loses their attractiveness, or turns ugly, we say you have “mano mala” or a bad hand. It basically means a person’s appearance declined because of their partner’s influence. There are multiple reasons why a person is influenced to let themselves go, but it is mostly due too much comfort, lack game or abundance, and/or stopped giving them a reason to stay on top of themselves like they stopped feeling motivated to maintain their appearance because they believe the other person will stay regardless.
 

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They lose weight to catch a dude.
They catch a dude and reel him in.
They they marry him an get fat.
Then when they're REALLY fat, they divorce him and take half his sh*t.
Don't fall for it.
Curious to know what happens next you did not write.
This is most accurate thing I've read
Are we talking an otherwise beautiful girl who loses a lot of weight?
What? Well usually even the ugliest one will have a glow up
 
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