Thanks for posting this @Gamisch
As a true sub sexually, this is exactly how I feel.
The physical pleasure of it might be okay, but that is secondary to how it makes a true sexually submissive girl feel emotionally. Which is "ick" and no thank you.
For me anyway, and apparently for the women you're with too Gamisch, or some.
I don't enjoy it, my hubs doesn't either for same reason, that's our dynamic as a sexually dom/sub couple.
For couples who don't have that dom/sub dynamic sexually, hey more power to ya if it turns you both on.
EDIT: Per thread title, wanted to add I won't lose respect for him, it's just not something we enjoy, sexually.
I'm sure it goes without saying there are plenty of things a sexually dominant man can do to satisfy his sub gf/wife without going down on her.
I LOVE giving him BJ's though and yes giving him pleasure gives ME pleasure!
I think that's pretty typical for a sub though, sexually.