"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women in the workplace

JoesphBrown

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Quick question: I've got this girl who works at my restaurant (I'm in kitchen shes a server) and I can tell shes DTF (follows me around touches my hair, always touching me etc etc). I'd say shes like a 7 blah blah blah.

Anyways do any of you handsome gentlemen have an experience hooking up with girls in your workplace? Is it a good idea or a bad idea?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Young OG

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It's usually not the best idea. I used to work at a upscale department store when I was younger. I dated many women that worked there. Some were in my department and I would have to work side by side with them after we stopped dating.

But if she is a server, then I wouldn't worry about it. Serving is a revolving door. She prob won't be around long.
 

SeymourCake

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Do not go forth with it.
 

El Payaso

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She'll probably file a sexual harassment case with the manager when you break up with her because she's upset and the manager being a white knight will likely comply with her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poonani Maker

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El Payaso said:
She'll probably file a sexual harassment case with the manager when you break up with her because she's upset and the manager being a white knight will likely comply with her.
Happened to ME in 2006. She LIED that I was "Stalking" her. My boss took me into a room and cited state laws. A couple of months later, I was fired for something VERY small (in a right-to-work state). BUT, this firing was the BEST thing that EVER happened to me. I bounced back EXTREMELY hard. I don't know if you'd call it a rubber band, probably much much Stronger material of elasticity. She's now in the dumps, I'm now in paradise.
 
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I've dated two coworkers. One for a month, another for 4 years and we both quit the job only weeks before we would have been fired.

I wouldn't do it unless you're okay with quitting the job on a whim, if so have at it.
 
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