"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women in the workplace

JoesphBrown

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Quick question: I've got this girl who works at my restaurant (I'm in kitchen shes a server) and I can tell shes DTF (follows me around touches my hair, always touching me etc etc). I'd say shes like a 7 blah blah blah.

Anyways do any of you handsome gentlemen have an experience hooking up with girls in your workplace? Is it a good idea or a bad idea?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Young OG

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It's usually not the best idea. I used to work at a upscale department store when I was younger. I dated many women that worked there. Some were in my department and I would have to work side by side with them after we stopped dating.

But if she is a server, then I wouldn't worry about it. Serving is a revolving door. She prob won't be around long.
 

SeymourCake

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Do not go forth with it.
 

El Payaso

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She'll probably file a sexual harassment case with the manager when you break up with her because she's upset and the manager being a white knight will likely comply with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Poonani Maker

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El Payaso said:
She'll probably file a sexual harassment case with the manager when you break up with her because she's upset and the manager being a white knight will likely comply with her.
Happened to ME in 2006. She LIED that I was "Stalking" her. My boss took me into a room and cited state laws. A couple of months later, I was fired for something VERY small (in a right-to-work state). BUT, this firing was the BEST thing that EVER happened to me. I bounced back EXTREMELY hard. I don't know if you'd call it a rubber band, probably much much Stronger material of elasticity. She's now in the dumps, I'm now in paradise.
 
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I've dated two coworkers. One for a month, another for 4 years and we both quit the job only weeks before we would have been fired.

I wouldn't do it unless you're okay with quitting the job on a whim, if so have at it.
 
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