"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women in the workplace

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Quick question: I've got this girl who works at my restaurant (I'm in kitchen shes a server) and I can tell shes DTF (follows me around touches my hair, always touching me etc etc). I'd say shes like a 7 blah blah blah.

Anyways do any of you handsome gentlemen have an experience hooking up with girls in your workplace? Is it a good idea or a bad idea?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Young OG

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It's usually not the best idea. I used to work at a upscale department store when I was younger. I dated many women that worked there. Some were in my department and I would have to work side by side with them after we stopped dating.

But if she is a server, then I wouldn't worry about it. Serving is a revolving door. She prob won't be around long.
 
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Do not go forth with it.
 
El Payaso

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She'll probably file a sexual harassment case with the manager when you break up with her because she's upset and the manager being a white knight will likely comply with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poonani Maker

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El Payaso said:
She'll probably file a sexual harassment case with the manager when you break up with her because she's upset and the manager being a white knight will likely comply with her.
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Happened to ME in 2006. She LIED that I was "Stalking" her. My boss took me into a room and cited state laws. A couple of months later, I was fired for something VERY small (in a right-to-work state). BUT, this firing was the BEST thing that EVER happened to me. I bounced back EXTREMELY hard. I don't know if you'd call it a rubber band, probably much much Stronger material of elasticity. She's now in the dumps, I'm now in paradise.
 
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I've dated two coworkers. One for a month, another for 4 years and we both quit the job only weeks before we would have been fired.

I wouldn't do it unless you're okay with quitting the job on a whim, if so have at it.
 
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