guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
A-freaking-men. It all goes back to how their raised. You have a much better chance of getting a "traditional" woman if she's been raised outside of the states. It's really that simple.bigjohnson said:Actually what's really funny is that comment. You are saying that women don't chase you? Because THAT'S WHAT'S IN the text you quoted.
This is just too funny.
First, pay attention.
Second Western Europe is not the best place to get a non-westernized woman. Better than here, but then the worst place is rumored to be Sweden. Go figure.
Finally the things a non-western woman lacks are things like:
- 20 years of people convincing her she deserves things she doesn't eserve.
- Constant bombarding with media messages from infancy that convince her to believe adult males are evil dolts.
- Peers who will mock her mercilessly if she does not behave like an entitled *****-princess.
Instead she gets:
- A youth spent helping her mother and sisters in doing traditional female tasks like cooking, washing and house keeping
- An example ingrained into her from youth of gracious lovable female behavior.
- A family and peer group that will envy her success if she marries well and then takes care of that household.
Obviously not exhaustive lists but the point should be made. If you doubt it go to rural China and chat up a few girls, or Vietnam or The Philippines or Cuba or Costa Rica. If you haven't been outside the USA for at least 4 weeks at a single stretch, feel free to STFU now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nygard said:Guess what, wealthy people, and anyone who feels that they have any kind of advantage over somebody will behave like that.
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Look, there are *****y girls everywhere, do not use their upbringing as an excuse. that's cheap.