guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
A-freaking-men. It all goes back to how their raised. You have a much better chance of getting a "traditional" woman if she's been raised outside of the states. It's really that simple.bigjohnson said:Actually what's really funny is that comment. You are saying that women don't chase you? Because THAT'S WHAT'S IN the text you quoted.
This is just too funny.
First, pay attention.
Second Western Europe is not the best place to get a non-westernized woman. Better than here, but then the worst place is rumored to be Sweden. Go figure.
Finally the things a non-western woman lacks are things like:
- 20 years of people convincing her she deserves things she doesn't eserve.
- Constant bombarding with media messages from infancy that convince her to believe adult males are evil dolts.
- Peers who will mock her mercilessly if she does not behave like an entitled *****-princess.
Instead she gets:
- A youth spent helping her mother and sisters in doing traditional female tasks like cooking, washing and house keeping
- An example ingrained into her from youth of gracious lovable female behavior.
- A family and peer group that will envy her success if she marries well and then takes care of that household.
Obviously not exhaustive lists but the point should be made. If you doubt it go to rural China and chat up a few girls, or Vietnam or The Philippines or Cuba or Costa Rica. If you haven't been outside the USA for at least 4 weeks at a single stretch, feel free to STFU now.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nygard said:Guess what, wealthy people, and anyone who feels that they have any kind of advantage over somebody will behave like that.
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Look, there are *****y girls everywhere, do not use their upbringing as an excuse. that's cheap.