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Master Don Juan
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A-freaking-men. It all goes back to how their raised. You have a much better chance of getting a "traditional" woman if she's been raised outside of the states. It's really that simple.bigjohnson said:Actually what's really funny is that comment. You are saying that women don't chase you? Because THAT'S WHAT'S IN the text you quoted.
This is just too funny.
First, pay attention.
Second Western Europe is not the best place to get a non-westernized woman. Better than here, but then the worst place is rumored to be Sweden. Go figure.
Finally the things a non-western woman lacks are things like:
- 20 years of people convincing her she deserves things she doesn't eserve.
- Constant bombarding with media messages from infancy that convince her to believe adult males are evil dolts.
- Peers who will mock her mercilessly if she does not behave like an entitled *****-princess.
Instead she gets:
- A youth spent helping her mother and sisters in doing traditional female tasks like cooking, washing and house keeping
- An example ingrained into her from youth of gracious lovable female behavior.
- A family and peer group that will envy her success if she marries well and then takes care of that household.
Obviously not exhaustive lists but the point should be made. If you doubt it go to rural China and chat up a few girls, or Vietnam or The Philippines or Cuba or Costa Rica. If you haven't been outside the USA for at least 4 weeks at a single stretch, feel free to STFU now.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nygard said:Guess what, wealthy people, and anyone who feels that they have any kind of advantage over somebody will behave like that.
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Look, there are *****y girls everywhere, do not use their upbringing as an excuse. that's cheap.