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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
A-freaking-men. It all goes back to how their raised. You have a much better chance of getting a "traditional" woman if she's been raised outside of the states. It's really that simple.bigjohnson said:Actually what's really funny is that comment. You are saying that women don't chase you? Because THAT'S WHAT'S IN the text you quoted.
This is just too funny.
First, pay attention.
Second Western Europe is not the best place to get a non-westernized woman. Better than here, but then the worst place is rumored to be Sweden. Go figure.
Finally the things a non-western woman lacks are things like:
- 20 years of people convincing her she deserves things she doesn't eserve.
- Constant bombarding with media messages from infancy that convince her to believe adult males are evil dolts.
- Peers who will mock her mercilessly if she does not behave like an entitled *****-princess.
Instead she gets:
- A youth spent helping her mother and sisters in doing traditional female tasks like cooking, washing and house keeping
- An example ingrained into her from youth of gracious lovable female behavior.
- A family and peer group that will envy her success if she marries well and then takes care of that household.
Obviously not exhaustive lists but the point should be made. If you doubt it go to rural China and chat up a few girls, or Vietnam or The Philippines or Cuba or Costa Rica. If you haven't been outside the USA for at least 4 weeks at a single stretch, feel free to STFU now.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nygard said:Guess what, wealthy people, and anyone who feels that they have any kind of advantage over somebody will behave like that.
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Look, there are *****y girls everywhere, do not use their upbringing as an excuse. that's cheap.