"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women in 40s, prefers MUCH older?

ThisNThat

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There's this rather rigid woman that lives in my area that's on OK Cupid. Apparently, she had a LONG essay of things she's looking for in a partner that pretty much cancelled out any qualifying guy in the area. (Guess that's why she has "travel anywhere" as location).

She's 40 years old and she had her age range at 40 to 70 (yeah weird right). She told me I was too young for her (I'm 45.)

She said she's typically had dated men around 20 years older than her, not sure how attractive a man in his 60s or 70s would be to such a younger woman, but I'm guessing she's waiting for someone to die off and claim his inheritance? lol She claims not to have "daddy" issues, so she qualified her reasoning there.

She said she even finds "lol" and other Internet verbiage annoying to the point of being a disqualifying candidate.

Any reason you'd think a 40 year old would find a 70 year old attractive? I was facetious by instead of coming to an online dating site, to hang out at one of the local 55+ retirement communities instead.

She called me on it and said, "Yeah, I've been thinking of meeting someone that actually lives in those areas."

What a psycho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My question for you is why you not going for women who are in their 30s or even late 20s?
 

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I just feel like you're wasting your time with an old women who already gave up on relationships, marriage ect. I cant even imagine the amount of damage shes done in the past.
 

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she wants someone who will die and leave her a fortune
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She is not that attractive, and I know you can do better than this.

Just leave the courtroom.
 

cola

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She has saved 0 for retirement. Wants to trade that pre menopausal poon for some acorns
 
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