"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women in 40s, prefers MUCH older?

ThisNThat

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There's this rather rigid woman that lives in my area that's on OK Cupid. Apparently, she had a LONG essay of things she's looking for in a partner that pretty much cancelled out any qualifying guy in the area. (Guess that's why she has "travel anywhere" as location).

She's 40 years old and she had her age range at 40 to 70 (yeah weird right). She told me I was too young for her (I'm 45.)

She said she's typically had dated men around 20 years older than her, not sure how attractive a man in his 60s or 70s would be to such a younger woman, but I'm guessing she's waiting for someone to die off and claim his inheritance? lol She claims not to have "daddy" issues, so she qualified her reasoning there.

She said she even finds "lol" and other Internet verbiage annoying to the point of being a disqualifying candidate.

Any reason you'd think a 40 year old would find a 70 year old attractive? I was facetious by instead of coming to an online dating site, to hang out at one of the local 55+ retirement communities instead.

She called me on it and said, "Yeah, I've been thinking of meeting someone that actually lives in those areas."

What a psycho.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My question for you is why you not going for women who are in their 30s or even late 20s?
 

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I just feel like you're wasting your time with an old women who already gave up on relationships, marriage ect. I cant even imagine the amount of damage shes done in the past.
 

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she wants someone who will die and leave her a fortune
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She is not that attractive, and I know you can do better than this.

Just leave the courtroom.
 

cola

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She has saved 0 for retirement. Wants to trade that pre menopausal poon for some acorns
 
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