"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women in 40s, prefers MUCH older?

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There's this rather rigid woman that lives in my area that's on OK Cupid. Apparently, she had a LONG essay of things she's looking for in a partner that pretty much cancelled out any qualifying guy in the area. (Guess that's why she has "travel anywhere" as location).

She's 40 years old and she had her age range at 40 to 70 (yeah weird right). She told me I was too young for her (I'm 45.)

She said she's typically had dated men around 20 years older than her, not sure how attractive a man in his 60s or 70s would be to such a younger woman, but I'm guessing she's waiting for someone to die off and claim his inheritance? lol She claims not to have "daddy" issues, so she qualified her reasoning there.

She said she even finds "lol" and other Internet verbiage annoying to the point of being a disqualifying candidate.

Any reason you'd think a 40 year old would find a 70 year old attractive? I was facetious by instead of coming to an online dating site, to hang out at one of the local 55+ retirement communities instead.

She called me on it and said, "Yeah, I've been thinking of meeting someone that actually lives in those areas."

What a psycho.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My question for you is why you not going for women who are in their 30s or even late 20s?
 

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I just feel like you're wasting your time with an old women who already gave up on relationships, marriage ect. I cant even imagine the amount of damage shes done in the past.
 

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she wants someone who will die and leave her a fortune
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She is not that attractive, and I know you can do better than this.

Just leave the courtroom.
 

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She has saved 0 for retirement. Wants to trade that pre menopausal poon for some acorns
 
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