"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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women hitting you...yeah hitting you, the dj response?

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ok, my ex did this to me...while i was driving, she was banging on at me, wouldnt let me speak or get a word in , both instances, i said your not listening to me, im not listening to you and cranked the radio up...punch!
two times this happened, months apart! first time i was almost laughing second time i stopped the car and shouted at her to get out, she didnt, i drove on, no more trouble. she has a bit of history in this department.

looking back the first time should have been enough, we broke up after another of her emtional tirades.

how do you handle women who lash out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that link didnt work :confused:
 

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Nip it in the bud on the first hit.

She hits you.

You say, "If you ever disrespect me like that again it's over!"

Mean it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mrRuckus said:
I've hit them back just as hard.
no way I would ever do that, Im no saint but I just know id feel worse after doing that, looking back, had she been a guy, she would definately have got one
 

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dear BetheMan,
"A DJ response?"Next her.....Women who see violence as the answer to things not going their way are Powder Kegs waiting to blow.
 
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