"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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women hitting you...yeah hitting you, the dj response?

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ok, my ex did this to me...while i was driving, she was banging on at me, wouldnt let me speak or get a word in , both instances, i said your not listening to me, im not listening to you and cranked the radio up...punch!
two times this happened, months apart! first time i was almost laughing second time i stopped the car and shouted at her to get out, she didnt, i drove on, no more trouble. she has a bit of history in this department.

looking back the first time should have been enough, we broke up after another of her emtional tirades.

how do you handle women who lash out?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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that link didnt work :confused:
 

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Nip it in the bud on the first hit.

She hits you.

You say, "If you ever disrespect me like that again it's over!"

Mean it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrRuckus said:
I've hit them back just as hard.
no way I would ever do that, Im no saint but I just know id feel worse after doing that, looking back, had she been a guy, she would definately have got one
 

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dear BetheMan,
"A DJ response?"Next her.....Women who see violence as the answer to things not going their way are Powder Kegs waiting to blow.
 
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