"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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women hitting you...yeah hitting you, the dj response?

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ok, my ex did this to me...while i was driving, she was banging on at me, wouldnt let me speak or get a word in , both instances, i said your not listening to me, im not listening to you and cranked the radio up...punch!
two times this happened, months apart! first time i was almost laughing second time i stopped the car and shouted at her to get out, she didnt, i drove on, no more trouble. she has a bit of history in this department.

looking back the first time should have been enough, we broke up after another of her emtional tirades.

how do you handle women who lash out?
 

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that link didnt work :confused:
 
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Nip it in the bud on the first hit.

She hits you.

You say, "If you ever disrespect me like that again it's over!"

Mean it.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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mrRuckus said:
I've hit them back just as hard.
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no way I would ever do that, Im no saint but I just know id feel worse after doing that, looking back, had she been a guy, she would definately have got one
 
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dear BetheMan,
"A DJ response?"Next her.....Women who see violence as the answer to things not going their way are Powder Kegs waiting to blow.
 
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