"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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women hitting you...yeah hitting you, the dj response?

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ok, my ex did this to me...while i was driving, she was banging on at me, wouldnt let me speak or get a word in , both instances, i said your not listening to me, im not listening to you and cranked the radio up...punch!
two times this happened, months apart! first time i was almost laughing second time i stopped the car and shouted at her to get out, she didnt, i drove on, no more trouble. she has a bit of history in this department.

looking back the first time should have been enough, we broke up after another of her emtional tirades.

how do you handle women who lash out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that link didnt work :confused:
 

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Nip it in the bud on the first hit.

She hits you.

You say, "If you ever disrespect me like that again it's over!"

Mean it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus said:
I've hit them back just as hard.
no way I would ever do that, Im no saint but I just know id feel worse after doing that, looking back, had she been a guy, she would definately have got one
 

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dear BetheMan,
"A DJ response?"Next her.....Women who see violence as the answer to things not going their way are Powder Kegs waiting to blow.
 
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