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Exactly. Imagine this being done to you 15 times a year lol. No wonder why the more promiscuous ones are so neurotic.
Imagine them getting it done 50 or more times a week? I have been around with females like that. They always want a guy that tolerates them for the sex alone. His pump and dump leaves her emotionally starved, confused and depleted. They spend time around male friends who actually like them to recharge their emotions. Then go back and run into that wall again. They always want to change a guy or get him to like her...
 

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Anyone who thinks that women have "infinite options" has obviously failed math. With the gender ratio being around 50:50, that is simply not possible. The vast majority of women have limited options. The only women who have lots of options are very good looking women with good social skills. Such women make up 5% of the female population, at most. They are the ones who get into clubs without lineup or cover, are invited to yacht parties, have simps obsessing over them and showering them with gifts, and will occasionally fly on a private jet. It would be a mistake to generalize this as the experience of the average woman. The vast majority of women do not live this kind of life. Average and below average women live their lives in obscurity, don't get hit on while out in public and have to pay for their own sh!t.
Yet 1 out of 3 men are sexless and the rise of MGTOW and Blackpill prove this
While the title was clickbait the average woman has more option than the average man
 

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Yet 1 out of 3 men are sexless and the rise of MGTOW and Blackpill prove this
While the title was clickbait the average woman has more option than the average man
I wouldn't be surprised if the sexless number was similar (or even higher) for women.
 

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We definitely ain't in Kansas anymore. You have been here for a long time as have I and the changes that we've seen Are shocking
The fact that anyone would match with that is beyond me, and this is coming from a black men
Men with goals, drive, and ambition don't have to worry (or continually whine and post) about women "with too many options" because they don't give a f*uck. They stay focused on their life goals and plan and see women as a compliment and not the driving force in their life. Only weak insecure men worry about this s*hit.

If this hard truth p*isses you off because complaining and b*itching is so much easier, block me please. Poof! Problem solved.

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Life is much better when you level I still got some weight to lose making more than ever and I'm currently spinning
To make ANY relationship work these days you have to let her move in within a month or less. Or you move in with her. You have no idea how many women I’ve met in the past few years that told me how they lived with their ex after a few weeks to a month of dating. Women these days think if you don’t play house with them as soon as possible that you aren’t serious. I’m not willing to do that and I’m struggling with finding a relationship, coincidence? I don’t think so.
LMFAO hell no co-habitation is a no-no can she spend the night? if sure can she spend the weekend? depends on the weekend
can she spend the week?hell no

I value my peace
plates can't complain
Time runs out on all women. The wall is undefeated.
The wall for marriage yes but not for sex
 

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I wouldn't be surprised if the sexless number was similar (or even higher) for women.
Women can get sex at command even the ugliest ones, you of all people should know this (no shade)
I remember a former neighbor 46 years old build like a tub of lard and with a frog face (plus with purple hair to boot)
She always had a boyfriend usually around 6'3, 220, in great shape, ripped
granted those relationships never lasted long (they just used her for easy P and $$$)but even I wouldn't stick my dyck in her ha ha
 

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In any market where there is saturation there is always demand for innovation and originality

A lot of her "options" repulse her they are useless beta males

I see it all the time most guys just cannot stop themselves from doing the wrong things with women

One of my friends met a chick a month ago .....he has now virtually got her living with him , booking holidays with her and declaring his undying love to her

ONE MONTH

What's worse is he's been around the block with relationships constantly in and out of them I've tried coaching him he agrees with what I'm saying

Then a pretty face turns up and bam he's back to square one
I have a buddy of mine, great guy very smart but when it comes to women he just uses the wrong head
Within 5 years he's been married divorced, and now has 2 children by 2 different women the stress has caused him to gain 70 pounds

The part that kills me is, its like he has giving up(child support for two kids and divorce settlement will do that to you) the only thing keeping him going is his kids
 
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I have a buddy of mine, great guy very smart but when it comes to women he just uses the wrong head
Within 5 years he's been married divorced, and now has 2 children by 2 different women the stress has caused him to gain 70 pounds

The part that kills me is, its like he has giving up(child support for two kids and divorce settlement will do that to you) the only thing keeping him going is his kids
I can imagine. Plus worrying about kids living with 2 different women in 2 different houses, worry about being able to support them, giving them a good life under the circumstances, dealing with inevitable sh1t that will pop up with the 2 ex's. Would takes it toll on many for sure.

I've never seriously considered it, but had the odd moment when dealing with cr4p from ex and other stuff where I've thought if I didn't have my daughter as I need to be there for her growing up, and felt like this I'd blow my brains out.

Luckily very fleeting thought only a couple of times, but can imagine how some men go rapidly downhill if the world seems against them and they can't deal with stuff coming at them from all angles.
 

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Women can get sex at command even the ugliest ones, you of all people should know this (no shade)
I have no idea what this even means. Are you implying that I have sex with ugly women who command me to do so? I'm not even going to respond to such a childish insult LMAO.

As for your example of a 46 year old "tub of lard" with a "ripped" 6'3 boyfriend, I just don't see this in real life, except, occasionally, if the dude is black and the woman is white. But you are never going to see a ripped 6'3 white Chad with your purple-haired neighbour, at least not where I live.
 
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I have no idea what this even means. Are you implying that I have sex with ugly women who command me to do so? I'm not even going to respond to such a childish insult LMAO.

As for your example of a 46 year old "tub of war" with a "ripped" 6'3 boyfriend, I just don't see this in real life, except, occasionally, if the dude is black and the woman is white. But you are never going to see a ripped 6'3 white Chad with your purple-haired neighbour, at least not where I live.
Not sure how you didn't get it maybe I didn't make myself clear
Nor was I insulting you hence I put the (no shade) in there
What I'm saying is, it's super easy for women to get sex, even undesirable women have more options than a top tier dude. Hence I brought up my former 46 year old neighbor

Granted women want a "High value man" but the 80/20 rule proves they aren't enough of those to past around nor do most women qualify for a "Top Tier" man
 

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To make ANY relationship work these days you have to let her move in within a month or less. Or you move in with her. You have no idea how many women I’ve met in the past few years that told me how they lived with their ex after a few weeks to a month of dating. Women these days think if you don’t play house with them as soon as possible that you aren’t serious. I’m not willing to do that and I’m struggling with finding a relationship, coincidence? I don’t think so.
yep then they wonder why they have 100 thousand miles on the clock and nothing to show for it. apart from short term jaded relationships.

we really are the dumbest generation to grace the earth, with the easiest access to knowledge.

PS fellas remembe you never ever move in a womans house,
 

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In any market where there is saturation there is always demand for innovation and originality

A lot of her "options" repulse her they are useless beta males

I see it all the time most guys just cannot stop themselves from doing the wrong things with women

One of my friends met a chick a month ago .....he has now virtually got her living with him , booking holidays with her and declaring his undying love to her
Hope she is really hot…
 

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Imagine them getting it done 50 or more times a week? I have been around with females like that. They always want a guy that tolerates them for the sex alone. His pump and dump leaves her emotionally starved, confused and depleted. They spend time around male friends who actually like them to recharge their emotions. Then go back and run into that wall again. They always want to change a guy or get him to like her...
50 times a year... 50 times a week a is quite excessive, but i'm sure one of them does it.
 

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Imagine them getting it done 50 or more times a week? I have been around with females like that. They always want a guy that tolerates them for the sex alone. His pump and dump leaves her emotionally starved, confused and depleted. They spend time around male friends who actually like them to recharge their emotions. Then go back and run into that wall again. They always want to change a guy or get him to like her...
The guy they don't really like has to take her out to dinner a few times
Has to "woo" her and be romantic
And he will be lucky to sniff her panties much less get a HJ by the 4th date

Meanwhile The "Alpha" (or the guy she really desires) doesn't have to do any of that and gets to pump away with lots of vigor!
Since the first night and he didn't have to do half the shyt the "Woo" guy (or lukewarm guy does)

Make no mistake there women out now that are having sex with men they can't lock down but they are getting emotional from another guy who is trying to lock THEM down but is not getting the panties right away!
 

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This is *literally* the worst advice I have ever heard.
Lol I didn’t say do it, I was inferring that’s what women are demanding these days.
 

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This is *literally* the worst advice I have ever heard.
hes not saying that, Ive known 3 women recently and because i gave off the vibe i valued my time, they ALL bounced back to their ex.

also if she cant move you in as a Beta provider within 2 weeks she will bounce.

They are so rubbish at negotiating life its unreal. Hence theyre all miserable and jaded.
 

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hes not saying that, Ive known 3 women recently and because i gave off the vibe i valued my time, they ALL bounced back to their ex.

also if she cant move you in as a Beta provider within 2 weeks she will bounce.

They are so rubbish at negotiating life its unreal. Hence theyre all miserable and jaded.
what if you're a proper 'chad' - would she still discard you?
 

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What I've found is that men are so attention starved that if you give a man any amount of care or love that he will love you forever. Most men only want one thing: for someone to actually give a d*mn about them
 

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What I've found is that men are so attention starved that if you give a man any amount of care or love that he will love you forever. Most men only want one thing: for someone to actually give a d*mn about them
yep guy upstairs literally started talking to a bird a week ago, and their "together" now., she looks petrified lol like shes been held hostage.

pulled away from him outside when he went to kiss her on the cheek aswell
 

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what if you're a proper 'chad' - would she still discard you?
i think im up their with the chads lol, and it makes no difference whatsoever.

women dont care anymore, theyre over exposed.
 
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