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Yeah but women only go for 1% of men depending on her criteria and date up so they are fighting for commitment from 1 guy that can get multiple women. Even if the girl puts on her best behavior, she still has to deal with the fact this guy has women constantly hitting him up.
 

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Yeah but women only go for 1% of men depending on her criteria and date up so they are fighting for commitment from 1 guy that can get multiple women. Even if the girl puts on her best behavior, she still has to deal with the fact this guy has women constantly hitting him up.
It's really not the case, women rarely hit up men, even 10s, outside of dating sites.
Also they aren't fighting for commitment so much as following their biological drive to be knocked up by a 10.
They are concurrently actively seeking a beta to care for their offspring.
Most of female (and male) behavior is subconscious.
 

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Out of interest, who's driving this? Men have apparently been 'in charge' for centuries. Why is/was it in mens interest (people at the top) to allow this to happen? I understand feminism will be one of the reasons , but how would that and other factors be allowed to have such influence over men (at least in the western world).
Go tell a feminist men should have equal birth rights and you'll get your answer
 

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Go tell a feminist men should have equal birth rights and you'll get your answer
Yeah... Will never happen. Women will never let go of a paradigm that grants them greater security by taking the resources of men. That goes against their survival instincts.
 

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It's really not the case, women rarely hit up men, even 10s, outside of dating sites.
Also they aren't fighting for commitment so much as following their biological drive to be knocked up by a 10.
They are concurrently actively seeking a beta to care for their offspring.
Most of female (and male) behavior is subconscious.
Yeah they don't hit YOU up.
 

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Yeah but women only go for 1% of men depending on her criteria and date up so they are fighting for commitment from 1 guy that can get multiple women. Even if the girl puts on her best behavior, she still has to deal with the fact this guy has women constantly hitting him up.
So according to your logic no one should be getting married
In my city over 36% of people over the age of 15 are married
The reality is not every woman can get the top 1% guy
Eventually women are left with 2 options, 1 marry 2 continue to ride the CC or be alone
 

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So according to your logic no one should be getting married
In my city over 36% of people over the age of 15 are married
The reality is not every woman can get the top 1% guy
Eventually women are left with 2 options, 1 marry 2 continue to ride the CC or be alone
You're absolutely right, but I my case was against this red pill fantasy of your woman just having a cvck a night. I think they are talking more about Single Sally on Tinder or Instagram Ivy. If they could lock up the 1% man then they wouldn't be single. However, they cannot because the 1% man is being shared by other women. From my personal experience, I have two exes that have supposedly dated NFL players. Why couldn't they lock him down? Because there was always other women or he had a lot of kids lol.
 

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What this post REALLY means is that 99% of you Whiners don't bring anything to the relationship she couldn't replace by noon tomorrow.

Perhaps if you guys quit your whining and did something to set your self apart you might not have that problem.
 

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What this post REALLY means is that 99% of you Whiners don't bring anything to the relationship she couldn't replace by noon tomorrow.

Perhaps if you guys quit your whining and did something to set your self apart you might not have that problem.
No women can ever be fully pleased. You bring her dream guy to her doorstep and she will still find a reason to sabotage it.
 

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What this post REALLY means is that 99% of you Whiners don't bring anything to the relationship she couldn't replace by noon tomorrow.

Perhaps if you guys quit your whining and did something to set your self apart you might not have that problem.
That would make more sense if we didnt have our own options. I upgraded every girlfriend I ever had. The problem is that nothing has stick-tuitiveness because they get bored and have a lot of temptation.
 

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No women can ever be fully pleased. You bring her dream guy to her doorstep and she will still find a reason to sabotage it.
be careful with absolutes... My personal experience begs to differ. What do you have to offer that every other **** head single dude doesn't have? I'm guessing not much...
 

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be careful with absolutes... My personal experience begs to differ. What do you have to offer that every other **** head single dude doesn't have? I'm guessing not much...
idk, what did Kanye West do wrong? What did Robert Pattinson do wrong? What did Tom Brady do wrong? What is this magical Simp I mean Man that can please a woman forever not temporarily, not for a month, forever lol?
 

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don't compare your self with celebrities. That's a whole 'nother league, and frankly they have their own problems.

What I see are a bunch of whiners that bring nothing to the game. Average looks, piss poor personality, never been a leader, and completely unremarkable in the way they make a woman FEEL. What reason do you give her to be faithful and not upgrade when a man comes along that makes her feel lucky to be with that man, special and desired.
 

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Women THINK they have endless options, but they do not. In reality they only have options that are within their SMV.

Women have been brain washed in thinking they have all of these relationship options when in reality they have a bunch of men wanting to pump and dump them. They should thank OLD and social media for the mirage and most women cannot identify the difference until it is too late.......and totally worthless to any high value male.
I had a heart to heart with my cousin and sister about this. They were both delusional as most women. For whatever reason they can't comprehend the difference between guys that only want to fuhk them and guys that want to date them. These girls are in their early 40's and can't under why its getting harder to find quality guys. Yet they still try to operate like they did in their 20's.

Its called mismanaging your pu$$y......silly girls didn't seal the deal when it mattered, now it's too late. Haha go pound sand.
 

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I had a heart to heart with my cousin and sister about this. They were both delusional as most women. For whatever reason they can't comprehend the difference between guys that only want to fuhk them and guys that want to date them. These girls are in their early 40's and can't under why its getting harder to find quality guys. Yet they still try to operate like they did in their 20's.

Its called mismanaging your pu$$y......silly girls didn't seal the deal when it mattered, now it's too late. Haha go pound sand.
The question is are we mismanaging as well? Has porn and a hypersexualized society move the goal post of the boner test to a level where only fairly narcissistic and damaged hot women pass?

Not that I would ever discount the fact that similar pressures are 100 times worse on the female side of course. But I mean if they literally cannot get off sexually because they've ruined their standards with casual sex with guys weigh above them...
 

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You're absolutely right, but I my case was against this red pill fantasy of your woman just having a cvck a night. I think they are talking more about Single Sally on Tinder or Instagram Ivy. If they could lock up the 1% man then they wouldn't be single. However, they cannot because the 1% man is being shared by other women. From my personal experience, I have two exes that have supposedly dated NFL players. Why couldn't they lock him down? Because there was always other women or he had a lot of kids lol.
The reality is 80% of single women will try online dating at one point or another
I use to see beautiful women on OLD sites and some of them I knew and once I saw women I knew it all made sense I.e. CC riders, slvts, picky women etc

Beautiful women don't need OLD unless they don't know how to lock down a quality man doesn't have to be 1%
Women can lock down a top 30% guy in their area or even a Tops 20% guy depending where they live but most women are looking for the top 1%
 

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Why be frustrated about it? Say you encounter a woman whose ego is inflated and she rejects you, even though she should be happy to date you. Who wins and who loses here? She misses out on a great opportunity and you save a lot of time by avoiding a delusional person.

There are smart women who understand what their true options are. If you think about it, the current situation leaves fools permanently single, whereas the smart ones pair up.
Bump
 

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The question is are we mismanaging as well? Has porn and a hypersexualized society move the goal post of the boner test to a level where only fairly narcissistic and damaged hot women pass?
Good question.

Men will sacrifice being with a narcissistic and damaged women as long as she is young, hot, and fertiLe. Even hotness they will sacrifice as long as she is fertile. It’s almost all about the woman‘s fertileness for the man. Once she passes the age of no longer having kids, she is just about useless for him.
 

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Good question.

Men will sacrifice being with a narcissistic and damaged women as long as she is young, hot, and fertiLe. Even hotness they will sacrifice as long as she is fertile. It’s almost all about the woman‘s fertileness for the man. Once she passes the age of no longer having kids, she is just about useless for him.
I've never met a guy that was consciously thinking that way. It might be part of the subconscious decision-making process though
 

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