"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women go ghost on me then I care too much?
- Thread starter alx
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
In my dry periods I remember those folks sitting in prison, working on an oil-platform or somewhere else in nowhere. They have no vagina available but still they are heading towards a goal. Real men get not distracted by woman, they just take what lies in their way.
Also because of my experience with women it's rare I meet one I become enthralled over and if I do I can control it really well and it lasts only like a day.
So in short:
Be busy: if you have more than 10 minutes to sit and think about a girl you aint busy enough
Get Experiece: And you'll see most of your "favorites" usually don't end up being as great as you think they are.
1 out of 100 are worth any extra effort really..
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
i used to get so bothered when women would walk out of my life , now i dont care because i know another one will soon walk back into it
i actually enjoy wondering about where my next piece of pu$$y will come from
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Post of the day.
I know this seems silly, but if you are spending too much time worrying about what women are doing then you have a pretty sh!tty life. You really can not pretend not to care about women... you have to REALLY not care because you are too fvcking busy. You can't worry about one girl because you are seeing a couple of others.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Having frame is the ability to see the games those silly girls play and having game is the ability to reverse those games by reacting in the way that make them qualify themselves to you and invest more and more.
that's how pimps existed in the first place.