"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women go ghost on me then I care too much?

alx

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I guess I can't stop them ghosting me but how do I stop caring?

I know you will probably say meet other women but that gets exhausting and inevitably you will have favourites.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tamura

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What are your hobbies and your goals in life?

In my dry periods I remember those folks sitting in prison, working on an oil-platform or somewhere else in nowhere. They have no vagina available but still they are heading towards a goal. Real men get not distracted by woman, they just take what lies in their way.
 

cola

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Honestly just be too busy to care. Im so busy with work and hobbies, by choice. I often don't even notice they've gone ghost and sometimes go ghost myself by mistake.

Also because of my experience with women it's rare I meet one I become enthralled over and if I do I can control it really well and it lasts only like a day.

So in short:
Be busy: if you have more than 10 minutes to sit and think about a girl you aint busy enough
Get Experiece: And you'll see most of your "favorites" usually don't end up being as great as you think they are.
1 out of 100 are worth any extra effort really..
 

Bingo-Player

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i think it just comes with age and experience

i used to get so bothered when women would walk out of my life , now i dont care because i know another one will soon walk back into it

i actually enjoy wondering about where my next piece of pu$$y will come from
 

RangerMIke

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Honestly just be too busy to care. Im so busy with work and hobbies, by choice. I often don't even notice they've gone ghost and sometimes go ghost myself by mistake.

Also because of my experience with women it's rare I meet one I become enthralled over and if I do I can control it really well and it lasts only like a day.
Post of the day.
I know this seems silly, but if you are spending too much time worrying about what women are doing then you have a pretty sh!tty life. You really can not pretend not to care about women... you have to REALLY not care because you are too fvcking busy. You can't worry about one girl because you are seeing a couple of others.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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om1xr

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what others said plus you simply have no frame and get played instead of gaming those girls.

Having frame is the ability to see the games those silly girls play and having game is the ability to reverse those games by reacting in the way that make them qualify themselves to you and invest more and more.

that's how pimps existed in the first place.
 
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