"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women go ghost on me then I care too much?

alx

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I guess I can't stop them ghosting me but how do I stop caring?

I know you will probably say meet other women but that gets exhausting and inevitably you will have favourites.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tamura

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What are your hobbies and your goals in life?

In my dry periods I remember those folks sitting in prison, working on an oil-platform or somewhere else in nowhere. They have no vagina available but still they are heading towards a goal. Real men get not distracted by woman, they just take what lies in their way.
 

cola

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Honestly just be too busy to care. Im so busy with work and hobbies, by choice. I often don't even notice they've gone ghost and sometimes go ghost myself by mistake.

Also because of my experience with women it's rare I meet one I become enthralled over and if I do I can control it really well and it lasts only like a day.

So in short:
Be busy: if you have more than 10 minutes to sit and think about a girl you aint busy enough
Get Experiece: And you'll see most of your "favorites" usually don't end up being as great as you think they are.
1 out of 100 are worth any extra effort really..
 

Bingo-Player

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i think it just comes with age and experience

i used to get so bothered when women would walk out of my life , now i dont care because i know another one will soon walk back into it

i actually enjoy wondering about where my next piece of pu$$y will come from
 

RangerMIke

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Honestly just be too busy to care. Im so busy with work and hobbies, by choice. I often don't even notice they've gone ghost and sometimes go ghost myself by mistake.

Also because of my experience with women it's rare I meet one I become enthralled over and if I do I can control it really well and it lasts only like a day.
Post of the day.
I know this seems silly, but if you are spending too much time worrying about what women are doing then you have a pretty sh!tty life. You really can not pretend not to care about women... you have to REALLY not care because you are too fvcking busy. You can't worry about one girl because you are seeing a couple of others.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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om1xr

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what others said plus you simply have no frame and get played instead of gaming those girls.

Having frame is the ability to see the games those silly girls play and having game is the ability to reverse those games by reacting in the way that make them qualify themselves to you and invest more and more.

that's how pimps existed in the first place.
 
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