sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not sure why anyone is surprised by this... we ALL have that BPD girl we'd just love to spend the night with..... BUT we know it isn't for a long term deal....
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You are terribly naive if you believe that.Embers84 said:Women are loyal to their alpha boyfriends and husbands. Betas like the author who don't have the credentials to keep a woman long term needs to spin plates for a lifetime. Loyalty is a major characteristic of the alpha male.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
As harsh as he puts it down he covered core alpha/beta pretty well.PlayHer Man said:All I've ever advised is for a man to do what's best for him. Any man who wants to play cannon fodder or lay on his own sword for the "good of society" is welcomed to do that.![]()
Also.. nothing I've ever said or suggested keeps you from having kids. But if the ONLY way for you to have kids is to be enslaved by a woman.. are you willing to play that cannon fodder role?
I know beta is a bad word.. but its really the betas who keep the world going. They are also taken for granted and treated like trash because they are so willing to play cannon fodder. :crackup:
No alpha is going to waste his time worrying about what's good for women and kids unless its also good for him. Real talk. :yes:
You sound like the type who would throw away a high quality sandwich because you don't like the bag it came in. :crackup:GetFit66 said:I don't mind what he is saying, I don't care if your preaching about killing people. No need to sound like a 2 year old girl crying about it all the time though.
yeah man we all know beta king is play her man.Atom Smasher said:PHM and Burroughs are not the same person.
Are you sure we lost PHM? Perhaps he is nearer to us than we think...![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You mean playswithhimselfman the mental masturdebator A.K.A BurrHOE the Buffoon Queen.backbeat said:yeah man we all know beta king is play her man.
They way you follow me around this site I would say the only one "playing with himself" is you. Chill out on the stage 5 clinger behavior homo. :crackup:TarantulaHawk said:You mean playswithhimselfman the mental masturdebator A.K.A BurrHOE the Buffoon Queen.