sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not sure why anyone is surprised by this... we ALL have that BPD girl we'd just love to spend the night with..... BUT we know it isn't for a long term deal....
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You are terribly naive if you believe that.Embers84 said:Women are loyal to their alpha boyfriends and husbands. Betas like the author who don't have the credentials to keep a woman long term needs to spin plates for a lifetime. Loyalty is a major characteristic of the alpha male.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
As harsh as he puts it down he covered core alpha/beta pretty well.PlayHer Man said:All I've ever advised is for a man to do what's best for him. Any man who wants to play cannon fodder or lay on his own sword for the "good of society" is welcomed to do that.![]()
Also.. nothing I've ever said or suggested keeps you from having kids. But if the ONLY way for you to have kids is to be enslaved by a woman.. are you willing to play that cannon fodder role?
I know beta is a bad word.. but its really the betas who keep the world going. They are also taken for granted and treated like trash because they are so willing to play cannon fodder. :crackup:
No alpha is going to waste his time worrying about what's good for women and kids unless its also good for him. Real talk. :yes:
You sound like the type who would throw away a high quality sandwich because you don't like the bag it came in. :crackup:GetFit66 said:I don't mind what he is saying, I don't care if your preaching about killing people. No need to sound like a 2 year old girl crying about it all the time though.
yeah man we all know beta king is play her man.Atom Smasher said:PHM and Burroughs are not the same person.
Are you sure we lost PHM? Perhaps he is nearer to us than we think...![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You mean playswithhimselfman the mental masturdebator A.K.A BurrHOE the Buffoon Queen.backbeat said:yeah man we all know beta king is play her man.
They way you follow me around this site I would say the only one "playing with himself" is you. Chill out on the stage 5 clinger behavior homo. :crackup:TarantulaHawk said:You mean playswithhimselfman the mental masturdebator A.K.A BurrHOE the Buffoon Queen.