sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not sure why anyone is surprised by this... we ALL have that BPD girl we'd just love to spend the night with..... BUT we know it isn't for a long term deal....
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You are terribly naive if you believe that.Embers84 said:Women are loyal to their alpha boyfriends and husbands. Betas like the author who don't have the credentials to keep a woman long term needs to spin plates for a lifetime. Loyalty is a major characteristic of the alpha male.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
As harsh as he puts it down he covered core alpha/beta pretty well.PlayHer Man said:All I've ever advised is for a man to do what's best for him. Any man who wants to play cannon fodder or lay on his own sword for the "good of society" is welcomed to do that.![]()
Also.. nothing I've ever said or suggested keeps you from having kids. But if the ONLY way for you to have kids is to be enslaved by a woman.. are you willing to play that cannon fodder role?
I know beta is a bad word.. but its really the betas who keep the world going. They are also taken for granted and treated like trash because they are so willing to play cannon fodder. :crackup:
No alpha is going to waste his time worrying about what's good for women and kids unless its also good for him. Real talk. :yes:
You sound like the type who would throw away a high quality sandwich because you don't like the bag it came in. :crackup:GetFit66 said:I don't mind what he is saying, I don't care if your preaching about killing people. No need to sound like a 2 year old girl crying about it all the time though.
yeah man we all know beta king is play her man.Atom Smasher said:PHM and Burroughs are not the same person.
Are you sure we lost PHM? Perhaps he is nearer to us than we think...![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You mean playswithhimselfman the mental masturdebator A.K.A BurrHOE the Buffoon Queen.backbeat said:yeah man we all know beta king is play her man.
They way you follow me around this site I would say the only one "playing with himself" is you. Chill out on the stage 5 clinger behavior homo. :crackup:TarantulaHawk said:You mean playswithhimselfman the mental masturdebator A.K.A BurrHOE the Buffoon Queen.