Naughty Ninja
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Anyone believe in the saying "Women fall in love with someone like their dad?"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Women fall in love with someone like their dad
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
and what do you think that is? daddy issues. They need someone to re-create those same feelings because women are un-stable emotional creatures.Ease said:Its because women associate power and dominance with their dads, a leader figure. Creates the same feelings and all that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It can be a bad thing. Like for example women that cry about getting burned by men and talk all the time about wanting a good man, yet a month later will go and date another a**hole who is just like every other guy they dated.Ease said:It re-creates the feelings and she looks up to him like she did her dad.
Women want to be led, its an innocent desire.
Dont say it like it's a bad thing, i think it's cute.
There's a huge section of women that just need drama in their lives it seems. Frankly I don't think there are a lot of normal women around anymore. They either look for a man that is like their dad, or they date a**holes. And you know what the really bad thing is? the next generation of females coming up are going to be even worse!
I just don't look to spend much time with a woman anymore (unless i'm totally attracted to her). I go out with her enough to get action and i'm off to the next one. These women are toxic.
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YEP!f283000 said:It can be a bad thing. Like for example women that cry about getting burned by men and talk all the time about wanting a good man, yet a month later will go and date another a**hole who is just like every other guy they dated.
I just don't look to spend much time with a woman anymore (unless i'm totally attracted to her). I go out with her enough to get action and i'm off to the next one. These women are toxic.
Some women are so fukwits that they can´t control themselves and expect someone who will (control them, a kind of father). That´s why they sh!t test the hell out of you. In the end you feel drained because you have to take care of two people (you and her). Picture a "potent" car with horrible break system, imagine the struggle to drive such car, it will demand a lot of maneuvering from the driver. The likelihood of crashing it is pretty high.
That´s the prob with girls with daddy issues. It´s like, another analogy, having a car that needs tons of gasoline just to cross the street (no wonder they´re called High Maintenance girls).
Sometimes that's true. Sometimes not. Depends on her dad. If he was a strong good upstanding guy. Probably. If he touched her naughty places at night, probably not so much. If he beat the **** out her mom, well...who knows? What if he was never there? Maybe she likes distant dudes or becomes clingy. It's a minefield and probably should not be totally count on for good results.
Studies have shown that people (men and women) will tolerate shortcomings in their partners that are the same as their parents. For example, chicks who had bald fathers will accept a bald guy easier, and guys with alcoholic mothers will tolerate an alcoholic girlfreind a lot more, etc. For the most part anyway. Obviously some people will not tolerate an alcoholic partner because they have seen the damage done in their own families by their parents, but for the most part, people are more accepting of the shortcomings of their parents in their respective partners.
Whether or not this has anything to do with 'love' is a different situation.
Whether or not this has anything to do with 'love' is a different situation.