Naughty Ninja
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Anyone believe in the saying "Women fall in love with someone like their dad?"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women fall in love with someone like their dad
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
and what do you think that is? daddy issues. They need someone to re-create those same feelings because women are un-stable emotional creatures.Ease said:Its because women associate power and dominance with their dads, a leader figure. Creates the same feelings and all that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It can be a bad thing. Like for example women that cry about getting burned by men and talk all the time about wanting a good man, yet a month later will go and date another a**hole who is just like every other guy they dated.Ease said:It re-creates the feelings and she looks up to him like she did her dad.
Women want to be led, its an innocent desire.
Dont say it like it's a bad thing, i think it's cute.
There's a huge section of women that just need drama in their lives it seems. Frankly I don't think there are a lot of normal women around anymore. They either look for a man that is like their dad, or they date a**holes. And you know what the really bad thing is? the next generation of females coming up are going to be even worse!
I just don't look to spend much time with a woman anymore (unless i'm totally attracted to her). I go out with her enough to get action and i'm off to the next one. These women are toxic.
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YEP!f283000 said:It can be a bad thing. Like for example women that cry about getting burned by men and talk all the time about wanting a good man, yet a month later will go and date another a**hole who is just like every other guy they dated.
I just don't look to spend much time with a woman anymore (unless i'm totally attracted to her). I go out with her enough to get action and i'm off to the next one. These women are toxic.
Some women are so fukwits that they can´t control themselves and expect someone who will (control them, a kind of father). That´s why they sh!t test the hell out of you. In the end you feel drained because you have to take care of two people (you and her). Picture a "potent" car with horrible break system, imagine the struggle to drive such car, it will demand a lot of maneuvering from the driver. The likelihood of crashing it is pretty high.
That´s the prob with girls with daddy issues. It´s like, another analogy, having a car that needs tons of gasoline just to cross the street (no wonder they´re called High Maintenance girls).
Sometimes that's true. Sometimes not. Depends on her dad. If he was a strong good upstanding guy. Probably. If he touched her naughty places at night, probably not so much. If he beat the **** out her mom, well...who knows? What if he was never there? Maybe she likes distant dudes or becomes clingy. It's a minefield and probably should not be totally count on for good results.
Studies have shown that people (men and women) will tolerate shortcomings in their partners that are the same as their parents. For example, chicks who had bald fathers will accept a bald guy easier, and guys with alcoholic mothers will tolerate an alcoholic girlfreind a lot more, etc. For the most part anyway. Obviously some people will not tolerate an alcoholic partner because they have seen the damage done in their own families by their parents, but for the most part, people are more accepting of the shortcomings of their parents in their respective partners.
Whether or not this has anything to do with 'love' is a different situation.
Whether or not this has anything to do with 'love' is a different situation.