Naughty Ninja
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Anyone believe in the saying "Women fall in love with someone like their dad?"
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Women fall in love with someone like their dad
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
and what do you think that is? daddy issues. They need someone to re-create those same feelings because women are un-stable emotional creatures.Ease said:Its because women associate power and dominance with their dads, a leader figure. Creates the same feelings and all that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It can be a bad thing. Like for example women that cry about getting burned by men and talk all the time about wanting a good man, yet a month later will go and date another a**hole who is just like every other guy they dated.Ease said:It re-creates the feelings and she looks up to him like she did her dad.
Women want to be led, its an innocent desire.
Dont say it like it's a bad thing, i think it's cute.
There's a huge section of women that just need drama in their lives it seems. Frankly I don't think there are a lot of normal women around anymore. They either look for a man that is like their dad, or they date a**holes. And you know what the really bad thing is? the next generation of females coming up are going to be even worse!
I just don't look to spend much time with a woman anymore (unless i'm totally attracted to her). I go out with her enough to get action and i'm off to the next one. These women are toxic.
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YEP!f283000 said:It can be a bad thing. Like for example women that cry about getting burned by men and talk all the time about wanting a good man, yet a month later will go and date another a**hole who is just like every other guy they dated.
I just don't look to spend much time with a woman anymore (unless i'm totally attracted to her). I go out with her enough to get action and i'm off to the next one. These women are toxic.
Some women are so fukwits that they can´t control themselves and expect someone who will (control them, a kind of father). That´s why they sh!t test the hell out of you. In the end you feel drained because you have to take care of two people (you and her). Picture a "potent" car with horrible break system, imagine the struggle to drive such car, it will demand a lot of maneuvering from the driver. The likelihood of crashing it is pretty high.
That´s the prob with girls with daddy issues. It´s like, another analogy, having a car that needs tons of gasoline just to cross the street (no wonder they´re called High Maintenance girls).
Sometimes that's true. Sometimes not. Depends on her dad. If he was a strong good upstanding guy. Probably. If he touched her naughty places at night, probably not so much. If he beat the **** out her mom, well...who knows? What if he was never there? Maybe she likes distant dudes or becomes clingy. It's a minefield and probably should not be totally count on for good results.
Studies have shown that people (men and women) will tolerate shortcomings in their partners that are the same as their parents. For example, chicks who had bald fathers will accept a bald guy easier, and guys with alcoholic mothers will tolerate an alcoholic girlfreind a lot more, etc. For the most part anyway. Obviously some people will not tolerate an alcoholic partner because they have seen the damage done in their own families by their parents, but for the most part, people are more accepting of the shortcomings of their parents in their respective partners.
Whether or not this has anything to do with 'love' is a different situation.
Whether or not this has anything to do with 'love' is a different situation.