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I find that this same attitude carry’s well into their 30’s too. Some even into their early 40’s. I’ve noticed the same thing though. They either want the guy that doesn’t have a pot to piss in or Warren Buffet fvck you money.
I have observed the same thing as well. The guys who don't have a pot to piss in are often attracting-seducing much different types of women than the rich guys.
 

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Manlets have even higher salary requirements to get attention from women than even 5'9"-5'11" men.
This 5'0" man can have everything and still get rejected, unless all the competitor men are "murderers" or "child m0lesters".

 

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Agree. You have it sorted out.

Women are not that tough to sort out. You lead, and they follow. It’s not hard to sort out…..

And if they refuse?

Next. Period.
It sounds like the OP doesn't have many options to Next to.
 

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I have observed the same thing as well. The guys who don't have a pot to piss in are often attracting-seducing much different types of women than the rich guys.
There’s really only 2 types of women for the most part. Those that chase the losers and those who chase the ultra rich guys.
 

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes, I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
Depends on where you live, in the midwest a guy making 75K-125K in decent shape if he lives in a great part of town will clean up very very easily. Having great logistics gives you access to another tier of women
 

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Depends on where you live, in the midwest a guy making 75K-125K in decent shape if he lives in a great part of town will clean up very very easily. Having great logistics gives you access to another tier of women
Where in the Midwest USA? A mid-sized city like Des Moines, Iowa? $75k-125k in decent shape in Dallas, Texas means essentially nothing. Dallas, Texas isn't the Midwest but it is somewhere in the middle of the USA.

 

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Where in the Midwest USA? A mid-sized city like Des Moines, Iowa? $75k-125k in decent shape in Dallas, Texas means essentially nothing. Dallas, Texas isn't the Midwest but it is somewhere in the middle of the USA.

Iowa (75K you living like a King)
Wisconsin (75K you in the top 10% for men)
Minnesota (100K and a great location easy)
North dakota (100K would be rockstar status but good luck finding chicks that are 6+'s)
South dakota (slept on college town if you live near campus making 75K you gonna clean up)
Ohio (depneding on where in Ohio a 100K and being in decent shape will have you smashing all types of blondes lol)

Heck even in Chicago if you make over 95K a year as a single guy with logicitcs in shape you gonna smash some bad eastern europeans or Habesha girls. Cost of livingis diffrent 90K in NYC ain't shyt. in LA aint shyt. And not surprised in Dallas it ain't **** either Different strokes for different folks
 

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I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
This might be part of the problem, I run into much fewer issues with younger women compared to the ones I meet out at the bars in the more "young professional" part of my city.
 

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I run into much fewer issues with younger women compared to the ones I meet out at the bars in the more "young professional" part of my city.
You seem more focused on 21-25, which will naturally have fewer issues than 26-35 year olds. The older women get, the more issues and baggage that makes the whole interaction process less fun.
 

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You seem more focused on 21-25, which will naturally have fewer issues than 26-35 year olds. The older women get, the more issues and baggage that makes the whole interaction process less fun.
Agreed. And the fact they're older my theory is they're thinking more long-term, so they want to see how many boxes you can check off.
 

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Agreed. And the fact they're older my theory is they're thinking more long-term, so they want to see how many boxes you can check off.
And how much you're willing to grind (not on their pants, but groveling)
 
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Full collapse inbound to you. We'll see how these lazy ass women fare without ANY dudes to provide. Inflation and illegal aliens thru the ROOF! LMFAO. I don't want no bum ass females.
 

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Full collapse inbound to you. We'll see how these lazy ass women fare without ANY dudes to provide. Inflation and illegal aliens thru the ROOF! LMFAO. I don't want no bum ass females.
They rage they will feel when they find witchcraft can only go so far...
 

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the fact they're older my theory is they're thinking more long-term, so they want to see how many boxes you can check off.
Your theory is valid. Women do tend to get a bit fussier when they want to date longer term, so the checklist of boxes gets longer. That's something that guys who tend to prefer some sort of longer term relationship dislike about that. It goes back to Iron Rule of Tomassi #1. Control the frame and make her enter your frame. If she doesn't want to enter your frame, then she can GTFO.
 

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want.
I just saw this today. I am in this category and have a wife and children.

i also (regrettably) had what I call “porn come to life” moments in my life while unemployed.


How did you come to your conclusion?
 

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I just saw this today. I am in this category and have a wife and children.

i also (regrettably) had what I call “porn come to life” moments in my life while unemployed.


How did you come to your conclusion?
Hold up. What do you mean by "saw this today"?.

You're married with kids= settled. Your wife doesn't respect you or what?
 

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Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media is telling them. Get a man who accepts you for you are OR "you deserve better queen!"

Yes I am posting this out of frustration. I'm meeting many women (in their late twenties) who put in very little and expect a lot. I've never in my life had to put up with so much arrogant and self-entitled garbage from women of today.
It took me a while to understand that, but for some type of woman they just want you accept all their BS. If you try to hold them accountable or try to talk about something both committed and she is not doing, this happens.

Most times I end breaking up, but it seems those kind of women want a stupid guy that doesnt have any kind of self-respect. Its pure manipulation.
 

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Hold up. What do you mean by "saw this today"?.

You're married with kids= settled. Your wife doesn't respect you or what?
I just saw the post.
 
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