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Im stoked man... ex is fkn mad at me..... she thought the kids were gunna stay with her and take on this new fat wallet guy with her... they dont like him and like my lady friend way better.... it feels great.... a win of sorts on a weird level of some kind. I feel for my kids as their relationship with their mom is deteriorating.... but thats got nothin to do with me. Im just here.... a rock... like i always was.It's going to be fulfilling and empowering...
Just fyi.... that chick is long gone.... she tried a couple times to reconnect with me... but as hot as she was... (way hotter than the girl im seeing currently) .... she was a fkn flake... so she can go fk herself... ill take a caring, loving... homely woman who worships the ground i walk on over some hot ***** that thinks her shyt dont stink .... im so done with chicks that behave that way... glad my current lady is the epitome of how a woman should respect her man and earn his affections.... fkn so many bitches out there...She's a loser and doesn't have any real friends
Hows the sex?Just fyi.... that chick is long gone.... she tried a couple times to reconnect with me... but as hot as she was... (way hotter than the girl im seeing currently) .... she was a fkn flake... so she can go fk herself... ill take a caring, loving... homely woman who worships the ground i walk on over some hot ***** that thinks her shyt dont stink .... im so done with chicks that behave that way... glad my current lady is the epitome of how a woman should respect her man and earn his affections.... fkn so many bitches out there...
I'm going to cut to the chase: What the f*uck are you doing?
She rejects you by saying you're not her type, in other words "F-off buddy, I have many better options than you." If she did that to me, my reply would be NO REPLY and I would cut bait and move on per IDGAF and the Abundance Mentality.
Then, she circles back, most likely because options 1-25 all fell through and messages you about a hike because she's lonely and has no one else to go with. You gladly accept (and idgaf that you "waited" a few hours, lol, makes zero difference), put your tail between your legs, and picked up the mini-crumb she threw to you.
All I can do is shake my head. What disappoints me even more is you've been on this site for a EIGHT years so you should know this s*hit.
You just covertly communicated to her you have NO other options, self respect, or "game" as we call it, employ a scarcity mindset, and are much more into her than she is into you--all really bad places for a DJ to be. Man...WTF?!
Dude: SHE REJECTED YOU--PERIOD. It's not some kind of s*hit test.
Read this over and over: WOMEN DO NOT REJECT MEN THEY HAVE HIGH (or any, really) INTEREST IN.
This whole story is exactly why today's women have the over-inflated egos and sense of self they have.
Good luck to you.
Man I love hearing these stories like this and wish the best for you. Often times on SS, it always seem like doom and gloom situations and/or we never get updated. It's nice to hear where you started and where you're at.Haha yeah it was.... i am with a totally new lady now for last 5 months.. she cooks.. cleans.. fvcks ... enjoys hunting.. loves fishin .. enjoys pc/console gaming and working out... and was my other highschool crush from the same year i met my ex wife(btw im 42 now shes 43 and we met in grade 10 as she was my science 10 lab partner back then) She lived an hour from me and transfered her job to my town and is moving a few blocks away end of month (not cohabitating yet but i can see it one day for sure)
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I usually talk less and esculate more.So... last Thursday I went on a date with a HB7.5 aprox.. shes my age... we bantered back and forth for a week cuz we both been busy.. and played 20 questions and a few phone calls up until our date..
We agreed to get together over dinner ..... and we had good time... some laughs.. some situational humor... and a couple drinks.. It was gettin late for her cuz she had to work next day and she gets up at 3am to go to work... so we part... we hug..
Next day... we have some more banter via text at work... but then she says "i dont think we have a connection, i wish you luck".... so i shrug it off and thank her for meeting up with me and i let her know i thought she was pretty cute.
Five days later.. she texts me... she says "hey how ya doing" .... asks me if i have done any new recipes (i mentioned to her previously about my meal planning which is pretty much always the same so she negged me on it playfully) I mentioned to her that no.. im just meal planning with the supplies i have.. and this weekend i will try making somthing new and that id think of her when i did it...
Today.. she texts me and tells me about her day and asks if id like to go on a hike with her maybe this weekend... lol... so im like... well, ill have to see.. leme get back to you.. so i left her hanging for a few hours and got back to her at the end of the day and said yeah i think that sounds good id love to join ya.
Why would she tell me she didnt feel a connection... wish me good luck.. but then ask if i wana go on a hike with her like 7 days later.. lol??
The woods is more my element anyways... kinda stoked.. but ill play it cool. Shes a cool chick... i enjoyed her banter and company ..so... will see how it goes.